One thing i often ponder is sex. What is so sacred about it? Why do we restrict ourselves? Someone who has had sex with 20+ people is a whore. Why?! If it was all safe... What is the difference in me having sex with 1 person 400 times compared to 20 people 20x. I find it very hard to understand the majoritys opinion. Help me
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I don't understand the viewpoint either.
That whole "well, if you have a key that opens every lock, you've got a great key. But if you have a lock that every key could open...not a very good lock" phrase bugs me. I wish I had a rebuttal. But I don't and it irks me.
I could care less what other people do with their bodies as long as no one gets hurt.
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That saying is sort of sexist. There's a clear lock analogy being the vagina and the key being the dick.
Anyway... I don't see value in people based on how many (or few) they have slept with.
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My thought isnt really about keeping stock in numbers. More of ... Hmm ... Why do we make it so personal and reserved for relationships. Im finding it very hard to articulate what im thinking.
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Anyway, I think everyone should bang whoever they want, however many times they want. I wish the others weren't so judgmental about other people's sex lives. It's not anyone's biz really except for the people involved, so if they aren't inviting you to know more about it - why do you care, you know? I couldn't care less about how many people a person has slept with.
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Curious, if you think people should bang, would you be upset if jimmy did? And whats the reasoning for whatever you answer? Dont be sorry for not divulging if you dont want to
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I think when you are asking questions like this- it's like asking someone about their sexual preference.
"Yeah but, WHY do you like the SAME sex and not the OPPOSITE sex?"
Because. It's their preference.
Why don't I like coconut? Because I dislike the flavor.
Why does one believe in God? Or saying why don't you believe in God?
Because you do, or you don't. It's how you feel.
Some people like coconut. Some people don't like coconut.
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What I mean is I don't care how many people anybody has slept with, or is sleeping with, or isn't sleeping with, or anything regarding that. I think that slut shaming is wrong, and judging anyone for their preference is also wrong. The only time I'm taking issue with a person's sex life is when it's unsafe/hurting others, which I think is pretty fair.
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