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One thing i often ponder is sex. What is so sacred about it? Why do we restrict ourselves? Someone who has had sex with 20+ people is a whore. Why?! If it was all safe... What is the difference in me having sex with 1 person 400 times compared to 20 people 20x. I find it very hard to understand the majoritys opinion. Help me
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I think it's just what people are comfortable with. I feel that everyone needs to find their own way, and if the traditional ways make someone unhappy they should feel free to try things that will.
People get sad and upset when they want something really bad and it's not happening. I think a desire to give and receive a lot of affection from multiple people can outweigh the desire for focus from one person for some people. For other people I think a desire to give and receive a lot of affection from one particular person can outweigh the desire or curiosity people have about other romantic relationships. It comes down to what you want and need more in your life. Things things also I think can change over time. People can change their mind.
I see other people who I find attractive, but as long as Eric continues to give me the love and affection I need, I don't feel *strong* desires to act on curiosity I might have.
I would rather not enter into the complication of involving more people and more expectations. It's a lot of work to juggle people- even friends. People get feelings hurt, feel left out etc. I just want my romantic relationship to be straight forward, dealing with ONE person's expectations.
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