Just 'cause I thought of it.
I'm a virgin, and I'm fine with that. I often say that I'm a virgin by choice, and that's true, but only halfway. in that I've had the opportunity to have casual sex several times before and every time denied it. Physical affection is a thing that is tied in with emotions pretty strongly for me. my parameters for when I would have sex are pretty well defined and are as follows: I would need to be in a fairly committed relationship, something that I could count on for at least a little while, this is a fairly subjective thing. Additionally I would have to trust my partner implicitly, but I suppose that would come with having a moderately committed relationship. Love, trust, loyalty and lust. Those four have never conspired to happen at the same time for any real length of time. So in that way I haven't had the choice, but I'm okay with that. Sex isn't a terribly important thing to me, I assume its fun, but it requires some pretty serious emotional attachment.
Quick note on my thoughts on others and sex; I don't really care what you do as long as its honest, safe, consensual and between two people mature enough to understand the long and short term consequences and implications.
Quick note on my thoughts on others and sex; I don't really care what you do as long as its honest, safe, consensual and between two people mature enough to understand the long and short term consequences and implications.