I see all these implications to his faults, his not getting you, his thinking he knows everything, but what I want to know is, why was it necessary to say what you did to him last time, about his dad and the money, when you know, you of all people should know how hard he's worked to get to where he's at today?
Because exactly THAT. He worked hard. He learned the value of a buck. But when I talk about saying that I want MY kids to learn that, HE has the right to tell me that is "one of the most depressing things I've read in a long time."
How do you consider that fair, Taylor? Why NOW are you speaking up?
Right, and you couldn't have asked him why he thought it was depressing.
He never wanted me to speak up. But it's pretty sick how you think you're so great and are pushing all of this on him. Last time I checked, it takes two people to work this friendship thing.
And he couldn't have seen and judged clearly what I meant by it all? Did you go back and read the comments? Because I'm pretty sure it's all cut and dry. I was never pushing him to say that he had that to walk into, I just simply stated that my children DON'T have something like that to fall on. His parents weren't like Shane and I are with our kids. God, how long did he go without talking to them? What did he really learn from them in that time? Of course, by now, the story might've changed, and it might all be a big misunderstanding... but during that time, that we were best friends, his parential relationship was didly squat. They did nothing for him. He was making on his own. He was building his own pieces to his own puzzle. THAT is why that is so crucial to me to be that way with my children, seeing how he had to do it all on his own. But then again, do you even know how bad it was? Because where were you
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I'm used to these things, Tay. Chin up. I'm not reading whatever he had to say up there, so let's end this here? No point in you being mopey over spilt milk. We'll talk. As soon as you wake up.
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How do you consider that fair, Taylor? Why NOW are you speaking up?
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He never wanted me to speak up. But it's pretty sick how you think you're so great and are pushing all of this on him. Last time I checked, it takes two people to work this friendship thing.
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