And he couldn't have seen and judged clearly what I meant by it all? Did you go back and read the comments? Because I'm pretty sure it's all cut and dry. I was never pushing him to say that he had that to walk into, I just simply stated that my children DON'T have something like that to fall on. His parents weren't like Shane and I are with our kids. God, how long did he go without talking to them? What did he really learn from them in that time? Of course, by now, the story might've changed, and it might all be a big misunderstanding... but during that time, that we were best friends, his parential relationship was didly squat. They did nothing for him. He was making on his own. He was building his own pieces to his own puzzle. THAT is why that is so crucial to me to be that way with my children, seeing how he had to do it all on his own. But then again, do you even know how bad it was? Because where were you?
I think, that maybe you need to take a step back. Because he's pinning a lot of shit on me, and I don't think, for one minute, that you're being fair. He's pushed a whole hell of a lot on me. It's magically me that is pushing him into shit. And that's bull. Did I not talk to him after he broke up with Dennis? Yeah, I'll own up to that right now. I've owned up with that since then, because I'm the one that pushed him back towards Dennis. But you are right, it does take two. And I guess I'm just tired of being the one that puts forth the effort. Especially when he has the balls to go hide behind some cheezy ass journal that is "friends only". Let him go talk shit on me there, let him go say shit that I can't even respond to, or defend myself to. Because we both know he has at this point. That's straight up childish.
I think, that maybe you need to take a step back. Because he's pinning a lot of shit on me, and I don't think, for one minute, that you're being fair. He's pushed a whole hell of a lot on me. It's magically me that is pushing him into shit. And that's bull. Did I not talk to him after he broke up with Dennis? Yeah, I'll own up to that right now. I've owned up with that since then, because I'm the one that pushed him back towards Dennis. But you are right, it does take two. And I guess I'm just tired of being the one that puts forth the effort. Especially when he has the balls to go hide behind some cheezy ass journal that is "friends only". Let him go talk shit on me there, let him go say shit that I can't even respond to, or defend myself to. Because we both know he has at this point. That's straight up childish.
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