here, my mate heather shagged your boyfriend. 1st of june last year, i reckon. and he still tells her that he loves her and she's got some chat logs to prove it if you're interested.
I can't express how much my heart aches for you right now. The next few weeks are going to be so painful and so horrible but the only way to deal with it is to cry lots and hide in your house and talk to anyone who will listen.
Have you spoken to him about it? I cheated on my boyfriend (I didn't sleep with someone else though, just romped a bit) and everyone told me if I loved him and it was a genuine mistake, not to tell him. I couldn't stand the guilt though, so I told him and we talked lots and lots and we got past it. I know if gavin cheated on me I would want to stay with him even though my morals would say otherwise. I don't condem cheating at all, but if he's only done it once and he was drunk or whatever, there may be hope?
I dunno. It's heartbreaking when the only person you can talk to is the person who hurt you. I'm sure I speak on behalf of most of your friends list when I say I'm here if you need to talk, but I know random LJers probably aren't who you need right now. Time heals, maybe not completely, but the pain will fade with time. It probably sounds so hard to believe right now but you just need to ride it out :( *hugs* xxxx
i am feeling a lot of what you said. i want to see him so bad :( i want to phone him. but he said it's best if we just dnt talk again. he is the only person i want to talk to.
i guess it's for the best though, i'd be a complete doormat to take him back :(
^she's right you know. how do you know for definate? have you and him spoke about it? hearing from someone else? that's both cruel and a bit unreliable (unless you know and trust the source) *huuuug* I'm all for hating men though..any time you want to bitch/chat ;)
Have you spoken to him about it? I cheated on my boyfriend (I didn't sleep with someone else though, just romped a bit) and everyone told me if I loved him and it was a genuine mistake, not to tell him. I couldn't stand the guilt though, so I told him and we talked lots and lots and we got past it. I know if gavin cheated on me I would want to stay with him even though my morals would say otherwise. I don't condem cheating at all, but if he's only done it once and he was drunk or whatever, there may be hope?
I dunno. It's heartbreaking when the only person you can talk to is the person who hurt you. I'm sure I speak on behalf of most of your friends list when I say I'm here if you need to talk, but I know random LJers probably aren't who you need right now. Time heals, maybe not completely, but the pain will fade with time. It probably sounds so hard to believe right now but you just need to ride it out :( *hugs* xxxx
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i am feeling a lot of what you said. i want to see him so bad :( i want to phone him. but he said it's best if we just dnt talk again. he is the only person i want to talk to.
i guess it's for the best though, i'd be a complete doormat to take him back :(
thankyou xxxx.
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how do you know for definate? have you and him spoke about it?
hearing from someone else? that's both cruel and a bit unreliable (unless you know and trust the source) *huuuug*
I'm all for hating men though..any time you want to bitch/chat ;)
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