need help with the category of love...

[lostchild515]

ok, i'll start with how i met this guy. ok, i was at this bar that was 45 mins away from my house right? and i'm online for a mechanical bull and all of a sudden i met this guy. we were talkin and all and all of a sudden we realize we were in the next town over and we were only a block or 2 away. so we swapped cell numbers and we've been

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yeah so it's a little late but...

[topaz1988]

ok wow take a breath. Alright first off the whole blah thing after sex...Maybe it just wasn't that kind of sex, I mean not saying it was bad or anything, but the fact that you didn't feel like you were on cloud nine, could have been that, well you just weren't. It's not written anywhere that the first time you have sex with someone you're supposed to feel that way, so I wouldn't read that far into it if I was you. Second, no one can tell you if you're in love or not, if you are then you know it, plain and simple. About his comment with the I don't know, personally I would take it just as that, he just doesn't know. But that also gives you room to see where YOU want to take it, are you ready for anything more, if yes, then spend some more time with the guy (I wouldn't jump in bed everytime you're alone though just to confirm that he's genuine) that way you get to know eachother better, after some more time see where it goes if you want of course. Life is about experiances, take them as they come, maybe he will be a short lived

Re: yeah so it's a little late but...

[lostchild515]

he turned out to be a complete ass anyway, he has never called me once after and its been 2 weeks so i'm giving up. and i tried calling him once or twice just to see whats up, but oh well, i guess he's a one week man!