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thegreyman March 5 2009, 20:42:43 UTC
This hints at some inflexibility. Now I am all for setting boundaries and not budging on things that seriously impact your own well being within a relationship. However, what about judging each individual and situation on it's own merits for that time? All things change and humans tend to do human things.

Note: I have a hard aversion to absolutes.

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thegreyman March 5 2009, 20:43:53 UTC
That all being said I agree with all but one of the issues you've cited.

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_jeremiad March 5 2009, 21:22:46 UTC
I fail to see how any of those things could not seriously impact my own well being within a relationship ( ... )

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thegreyman March 5 2009, 21:57:30 UTC
Dang, I was afraid my meaning would not come across well in this medium. I'll chock it up to my poor writing skills.

As I said in my second comment I completely agree with all but one of your reasons. The one being central to my view point of poly relationships. I'm of the opinion that you can love more than one person. However that is not my question so set it aside please.

No need to justify any of your points as they are all valid reasons to dump a chump.

hmm OK I suck at trying to form the question differently at the moment. I'll revisit when my brain is a bit more capable.

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_jeremiad March 5 2009, 21:58:28 UTC
All right. :-)

Sorry it seemed I was coming down on you hard.

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_jeremiad March 5 2009, 21:43:41 UTC
The other thing I should say is that I have no interest in changing people.

If your stuff bothers me, the solution is not to convince you to change. It's to leave you alone.

I expect people to treat me the same way.

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