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Ok, so tomorrow is the day I ask the guy out, but during the week I've been thinking it over a lot. I'm still in love with Chris but I know we have no chance together, what-so-ever. He's made that quite clear. Is it fair that I ask this guy out when I'm still in love with Chris? I know we won't be together should is it ok to cut my losses and try to start something new even when I still haven't let go of the old?
I mean, I know it won't happen but say Chris decided he wants to try again and I'm dating this new guy? What then? Of course, I don't know what I'd do without being in the situation...
I can't remember if I was still in love with Josh when Chris and I started dating. That part of my life was really hazy. I only have brief memories of me crying backstage, begging Josh, throwing a bottle of Nutella at him, Josh saying he didn't want to be my friend in French, Coach Gerber reassuring me, and dating Jessica only to have it backfire because it was too soon after the break-up. That's it. The months afterwards...completely gone from my memory.
Then again, I may not have to worry about it at all. I still don't know if he's single. Maybe I should play this slow. Talk to him, catch up, and give him my number at the end of class and see if he wants to just hang out sometime. Then maybe while hanging out I can see how I feel.
Then again...that might get me stuck in the friend zone. Ew.
Help!
I have class at 4PM tomorrow. Any early-day responses would be much appreciated!
I mean, I know it won't happen but say Chris decided he wants to try again and I'm dating this new guy? What then? Of course, I don't know what I'd do without being in the situation...
I can't remember if I was still in love with Josh when Chris and I started dating. That part of my life was really hazy. I only have brief memories of me crying backstage, begging Josh, throwing a bottle of Nutella at him, Josh saying he didn't want to be my friend in French, Coach Gerber reassuring me, and dating Jessica only to have it backfire because it was too soon after the break-up. That's it. The months afterwards...completely gone from my memory.
Then again, I may not have to worry about it at all. I still don't know if he's single. Maybe I should play this slow. Talk to him, catch up, and give him my number at the end of class and see if he wants to just hang out sometime. Then maybe while hanging out I can see how I feel.
Then again...that might get me stuck in the friend zone. Ew.
Help!
I have class at 4PM tomorrow. Any early-day responses would be much appreciated!