Olivia, i don't know if you could ever really do this, but you're having problems because you're being nice. You put others before yourself, you're unselfish and giving. Everyone loves you for it. Mabye it's time to do something for yourself. Mabye you need to do the wrong thing for someone else but the right thing for you. You can't let other people get in the way of what you want to do. Sure, you'll get "rewarded" for this, the noble thing always does, but is it the same as this theatre charlotte guy? I'm not saying stop being noble, it's a wonderful charecter trait that's hard to come by, but sometimes you can't be noble, you need to put yourself first. Sometimes you've got to stand up for what you need instead of what others need. It's selfish and mean but sometimes you have to be selfish and mean cause others are too. People willing to be selfish and mean get to take advantage of the humble and giving people like what happened to you. It's not right, it's not fair, but it's what happens. And it'd be ignorant and foolish if you listened to what I'm suggesting here all the time. Most of the time being nice is better. But there are occasions where you have to take care of yourself, and this situation has passed, but there will be more like it.
don't stop being the nice sweet girl you are, it's great. it's nice to have people around who you know won't screw you over, but think about what i said.
don't stop being the nice sweet girl you are, it's great. it's nice to have people around who you know won't screw you over, but think about what i said.
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