*hugs tight* Darlingm you are definitely not a disappointment. You're an amazing person and everyone would feel horribe in your situation. <3 Is there anything I can do? If you want to talk, you can always message me! <3
You will probably ban me once and for all now. But how can you say you have self esteem and be affected so much by what people say about you or by what they do around you. Self esteem is interrelated with confidence, that's to say to be hopeful about your future. But you have thought about suicide so you are not confident in yourself.
You will be able to look for the right solutions when you will accept the fact that you lack self esteem.
If you know me a little you will know that I'm not trying to hurt you, but the very opposite. But if you don't you can ditch me out of your friend list because you don't pay attention to anything I say.
I'm not mad neither. I'm referring to an older entry when I told you I wanted to understand why you were depressed and you told me you understand yourself and don't want any help. My few comments on your next entries were never replied to neither so I concluded I should not try to contact you anymore.
On the subject, I think that self esteem is believing that your gifts are good enough to make you succeed in life. It's more a comparison between what you have and what you need to survive to society, rather than just your value as a human being. If Self esteem were only your value as a human being this notion wouldn't have any psychological value because your mind only care about what can hurt you and what can enable you to experiment pleasure. So, to me, the notion of self esteem takes your environment into account in order to make you feel good or bad about yourself. Just my opinion, as you say we have different beliefs.
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Darlingm you are definitely not a disappointment. You're an amazing person and everyone would feel horribe in your situation. <3
Is there anything I can do? If you want to talk, you can always message me! <3
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I'll be around more often, school is almost done for Christmas
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But how can you say you have self esteem and be affected so much by what people say about you or by what they do around you. Self esteem is interrelated with confidence, that's to say to be hopeful about your future. But you have thought about suicide so you are not confident in yourself.
You will be able to look for the right solutions when you will accept the fact that you lack self esteem.
If you know me a little you will know that I'm not trying to hurt you, but the very opposite. But if you don't you can ditch me out of your friend list because you don't pay attention to anything I say.
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but wanting to die because there is the wrong environment for that person to live in. like an animal in the wrong habitat. fish on land.
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i know people have different beliefs
im trying to fix the problem - that's also a sign of confidence
maybe you're misunderstanding me
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On the subject, I think that self esteem is believing that your gifts are good enough to make you succeed in life. It's more a comparison between what you have and what you need to survive to society, rather than just your value as a human being. If Self esteem were only your value as a human being this notion wouldn't have any psychological value because your mind only care about what can hurt you and what can enable you to experiment pleasure. So, to me, the notion of self esteem takes your environment into account in order to make you feel good or bad about yourself.
Just my opinion, as you say we have different beliefs.
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