Questioning my normalcy...boys edition
This article. I should stop reading anything that doesn't have to do with baseball, seriously.
Basically, it's saying why women don't go for nice guys and are more attracted to bad boys. I'm the exact opposite. The so-called 'bad boy' persona has always turned me off. It just has no appeal to me whatsoever. If you have to act like that to prove your worth, you're not worth it. Instead, it makes more sense to just...well, not be a jackass.
I also think a guy who's genuinely nice and understanding would be able to handle my autism. That's a big seller for me in terms of dating. I'm intimidated by guys as it is, and a lot of that comes from my fear of my autism turning a lot of them off because it's hard to handle. I actually like my men really gentle and caring and sweet, not tough and misbehaved and willing to mistreat me. I've been made fun of quite a bit in my life. There's nothing attractive about a mean person to me.
So guys who read this, if you ever do fall for me or any other girl with Asperger's or autism, if you want to win her heart, just be kind to her and treat her gently. You'll end up with someone amazing, I can promise you that. Well, maybe not with me, but you get the idea.
Basically, it's saying why women don't go for nice guys and are more attracted to bad boys. I'm the exact opposite. The so-called 'bad boy' persona has always turned me off. It just has no appeal to me whatsoever. If you have to act like that to prove your worth, you're not worth it. Instead, it makes more sense to just...well, not be a jackass.
I also think a guy who's genuinely nice and understanding would be able to handle my autism. That's a big seller for me in terms of dating. I'm intimidated by guys as it is, and a lot of that comes from my fear of my autism turning a lot of them off because it's hard to handle. I actually like my men really gentle and caring and sweet, not tough and misbehaved and willing to mistreat me. I've been made fun of quite a bit in my life. There's nothing attractive about a mean person to me.
So guys who read this, if you ever do fall for me or any other girl with Asperger's or autism, if you want to win her heart, just be kind to her and treat her gently. You'll end up with someone amazing, I can promise you that. Well, maybe not with me, but you get the idea.