Yeah, I figured I was due more pokes from people than I'd already got, so thought I'd better post some rambly nonsesne =) *hugs* But thanks for thinking of me =)
Well you'll have to beat deans-babe out of the way for the nekkid Dean - she's already offered to steal the digging equipment we need from work to get her hands on that particular prize - but make you could share?
I'm not surprised he's still struggling but it's difficult to know what to do really - he's not the kind of person to talk about how he's feeling at all and I honestly think it would help him - even a little bit - to maybe have some counselling but I know that will never happen. I'd just like to see him get the physio quickly so he can start working on getting his leg sorted, if it can be. At least then he'd have something constructive to focus on. But hey, at least he's okay, right? I also want to try and find out the court date for this asshole so I can go along - I want to see for myself that he gets what he deserves.
Oh no, don't apologise, I know how easy it is to miss things on here when people are updating every day and it's totally fine =) *hugs* If you want to read what did happen to him it's on this tag here on the bottom entry.
You know, I hadn't thought about that for my 2nd wish, and you're right, it would make sense, wouldn't it? I think I fried my brain with images of a Sam/Chcuk sandwich and just couldn't think logically at all after that =)
it's more that I'm not in a good state myself and then to involve myself in other people's life is not on top of my list. But I think I should be there for you if such horrible thing happens *hug*
why not wish for that sandwich with your first wish and the second is make it all undone. I just fear that the demon wouldn't take that if there is nothing to gain
Well I'm happy to be Hell's bitch if it means I can have 10 years worth of that particular sandwich - besides, the Winchesters always wriggle out of their deals sometimes so with Sam's help I'm sure I could find a way =)
Wow, that was already a month ago? Everything moves so fast... I'm glad the police did catch the piece of scum who did it, though. If I saw him in the street I'd spit on him (if I knew what he looked like. I'm not gonna spit on some random person. Might be awkward).
I'm glad that you're feeling a little better (I hope!) and that the mashed potatoes helped :) I'm sorry I didn't email back last night, too--for some reason I fell asleep right in front of my computer for about two hours, hehe.
Methinks I shall have to play lollipop lady if you do want to make that crossroads deal. Shall we try it, when I come visit?
It's funny but it sort of seems much longer to me - maybe because it was all so unreal at the time, I don't know. And I agree - you shouldn't go spitting on random people - not nice and you'd most likely get in some trouble for that, but thanks for the thought ;) though if I happen to pass him in the street, I'll do a damn sight more than spit on him.
The mashed potato did the trick - whilst talking to purplella at the same time, so yeah, yesterday was a win for me, rather than a draw =) *hugs*
for some reason I fell asleep right in front of my computer for about two hours, hehe.
So not surprised *lol* you work way too hard! Well during your time at Hotel Muppet you can rest - when you're not keeping a lookout for traffic for me while I try to dig this dam crossroads hole - okay?
A whole two days off huh? I'll anticipate LJ spammage then!
*runs into middle of the crossroads with whistle, lollipop and fluorescent jacket*
LOL! You sound like Deb - she was pointing out today that we had all the equipment we need at work as they're doing some garden work at the moment so she's sure she can get her hands on a couple of flourescent jackets and a digging machine ;)
You have a wonderful couple of days off okay?
*heffa hugs*
ps. When you get back to work please smack everyone who isn't being helpful in altering the November rota for you okay? I realised today that I had a plan for the Saturday evening that now won't happen. Phbt.
I'm so glad you're brother will, in the long run, be okay :) I'm also glad they got the guy(s) who did it! Do they know why they did it; random attack, wanted your bro or thought he was someone else?
Yeah me too - and that's what he needs to try and focus on, though I'm sure it's difficult when you're only 24 and you don't know if your leg will ever be right again. But yes, he's okay and that's what counts =)
The asshole who did it had apparently come to New Milton purposefully for a fight with some guy - who didn't show up (some men are so frickin stupid it's unbelievable) and so instead he took out whatever his rage was aimed at on Andrew and his friend. They were just walking down the street - 8pm in the evening - and he came out of nowhere. Andrew said he didn't even see it coming - didn't even realise he'd been stabbed until he feel to the ground, it was so damn quick, and when his friend tried to step in to kinda say wtf are you doing, he got knifed in the chest for his trouble.
So yeah, I hope this guy gets charged and sentenced appropriately and sent down for a good long time.
Idiots... seriously... that's just horrible. I hope that they get sentenced, fined, have to have counseling (anger management or 1 on 1) or something like that... and have restraining orders/parole conditions.
So it was two guys, or they got the wrong guy the first time?
As for rehab, does he like dogs? If he has one, that will help (walking the dog, even taking a few steps to get the ball from the dog and then throw it.) Or he can walk a neighbor's dog around the block or play with it. They're fantastic for rehab; Amber was trained to do therapy work. They're abosolutly fantastic, it feels so much better to do something for the dog then just yourself, and if you're focused on the dog, not yourself, you're distracted from the pain... sorry if that sounds like a rant...
All I know is they arrested 5 guys when it actually happened, but it seems they weren't involved in the actual stabbing so I don't know what they were charged with or even if they were charged now. This guy who stabbed Andrew and his friend was arrested recently - and yes, i really do hope he gets properly charged and sentenced for this and I'd like to be there to see that happen.
He doesn't have a dog, no, but I do understand what you're saying - he certainly needs to talk about it or something and that's not really something Andrew will do.
I'm worried about your brother now. Is it possible he's pushing himself too hard to recover? I talked to a woman before my hys. who told me that she hadn't given herself time to heal, and she still was feeling pangs years later. She told me to stay in bed and not push myself until they told me it was time, and I did, and I haven't ever had any problems. *touch wood* It takes a long time for abdominal surgeries to heal, and it sounds like his was much more intense and random than a controlled hys. would be. I really, really hope he's okay.
I'm sorry you've been feeling low. *hugs tight* I've been a sicky so I've been kinda out of things too. I'm really glad that you found some bright spots to cheer you. I hope that they keep coming.
Out of all my brothers he's given me more trouble than any of them - more trouble than all of them combined I suppsoe - but when something like this happens that just doesn't matter. He's so not the type to talk about how he feels, he'll most likely just end up getting angry or whatever - I just hope that with time and regular physio his leg can be sorted, it'd be crappy for him if it was always going to be this way as he's only 24.
Thank you *hugs* I try and keep myself occupied with things that make me happy when I feel like this and when that doesn't work I sort of shut myself off a bit - just do what needs to be done and that's all - but I'm working on it and I have lovely freinds - and a wonderful flist =) - so I'm very lucky =)
I hope you're feeling better now - I've jsut had a virus which pretty much wiped me out the last couple of weeks, which hasn't helped.
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Well you'll have to beat deans-babe out of the way for the nekkid Dean - she's already offered to steal the digging equipment we need from work to get her hands on that particular prize - but make you could share?
I'm not surprised he's still struggling but it's difficult to know what to do really - he's not the kind of person to talk about how he's feeling at all and I honestly think it would help him - even a little bit - to maybe have some counselling but I know that will never happen. I'd just like to see him get the physio quickly so he can start working on getting his leg sorted, if it can be. At least then he'd have something constructive to focus on. But hey, at least he's okay, right? I also want to try and find out the court date for this asshole so I can go along - I want to see for myself that he gets what he deserves.
*hugs*
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*hugs*
I hope your brother gets through all this shit alright.
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of you get two wishes shouldn't you wish for no consequences for your wishes?
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You know, I hadn't thought about that for my 2nd wish, and you're right, it would make sense, wouldn't it? I think I fried my brain with images of a Sam/Chcuk sandwich and just couldn't think logically at all after that =)
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But I think I should be there for you if such horrible thing happens *hug*
why not wish for that sandwich with your first wish and the second is make it all undone. I just fear that the demon wouldn't take that if there is nothing to gain
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Well I'm happy to be Hell's bitch if it means I can have 10 years worth of that particular sandwich - besides, the Winchesters always wriggle out of their deals sometimes so with Sam's help I'm sure I could find a way =)
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I'm glad that you're feeling a little better (I hope!) and that the mashed potatoes helped :) I'm sorry I didn't email back last night, too--for some reason I fell asleep right in front of my computer for about two hours, hehe.
Methinks I shall have to play lollipop lady if you do want to make that crossroads deal. Shall we try it, when I come visit?
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The mashed potato did the trick - whilst talking to purplella at the same time, so yeah, yesterday was a win for me, rather than a draw =) *hugs*
for some reason I fell asleep right in front of my computer for about two hours, hehe.
So not surprised *lol* you work way too hard! Well during your time at Hotel Muppet you can rest - when you're not keeping a lookout for traffic for me while I try to dig this dam crossroads hole - okay?
*hugs*
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*runs into middle of the crossroads with whistle, lollipop and fluorescent jacket*
STOP IN THE NAME OF LOVE! :D
*squishy hugs*
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*runs into middle of the crossroads with whistle, lollipop and fluorescent jacket*
LOL! You sound like Deb - she was pointing out today that we had all the equipment we need at work as they're doing some garden work at the moment so she's sure she can get her hands on a couple of flourescent jackets and a digging machine ;)
You have a wonderful couple of days off okay?
*heffa hugs*
ps. When you get back to work please smack everyone who isn't being helpful in altering the November rota for you okay? I realised today that I had a plan for the Saturday evening that now won't happen. Phbt.
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The asshole who did it had apparently come to New Milton purposefully for a fight with some guy - who didn't show up (some men are so frickin stupid it's unbelievable) and so instead he took out whatever his rage was aimed at on Andrew and his friend. They were just walking down the street - 8pm in the evening - and he came out of nowhere. Andrew said he didn't even see it coming - didn't even realise he'd been stabbed until he feel to the ground, it was so damn quick, and when his friend tried to step in to kinda say wtf are you doing, he got knifed in the chest for his trouble.
So yeah, I hope this guy gets charged and sentenced appropriately and sent down for a good long time.
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So it was two guys, or they got the wrong guy the first time?
As for rehab, does he like dogs? If he has one, that will help (walking the dog, even taking a few steps to get the ball from the dog and then throw it.) Or he can walk a neighbor's dog around the block or play with it. They're fantastic for rehab; Amber was trained to do therapy work. They're abosolutly fantastic, it feels so much better to do something for the dog then just yourself, and if you're focused on the dog, not yourself, you're distracted from the pain... sorry if that sounds like a rant...
*hugs you and your brother*
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He doesn't have a dog, no, but I do understand what you're saying - he certainly needs to talk about it or something and that's not really something Andrew will do.
*hugs back*
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I'm sorry you've been feeling low. *hugs tight* I've been a sicky so I've been kinda out of things too. I'm really glad that you found some bright spots to cheer you. I hope that they keep coming.
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Thank you *hugs* I try and keep myself occupied with things that make me happy when I feel like this and when that doesn't work I sort of shut myself off a bit - just do what needs to be done and that's all - but I'm working on it and I have lovely freinds - and a wonderful flist =) - so I'm very lucky =)
I hope you're feeling better now - I've jsut had a virus which pretty much wiped me out the last couple of weeks, which hasn't helped.
*hugs*
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