Uncertain

Aug 04, 2009 17:10

Ok, two weeks in a row without dropping a pound. I’m ok to plateau here for a bit; that happened to me in June. Weight loss is a long process for me, and I’ll get there eventually ( Read more... )

outings, relationship, anxiety, chris, weight loss, friends, caroline, travel

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clight August 4 2009, 15:19:38 UTC
I can identify with aspects of so much of this. I wish I knew what to say :/

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kudaspeaks August 4 2009, 23:56:09 UTC
I looked up paddle boat and Prague and that looks awesome. I would be sad to miss any opportunity to do that again too.

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prophetess666 August 8 2009, 01:31:14 UTC
I think emotionally, you and I are relatively similar, so I'm going to say this from a fuck load of experience - staying with someone who has anxiety and depression, simply because you don't want to make it worse for them, makes it a whole lot worse for yourself. Trust me, years of staying with my ex simply because I felt like he couldn't handle me leaving, and I am definitely worse off for it.

Not that I'm saying break up with Chris over this, I just really want you to be healthy yourself and I don't think it's going to help you to stay with him if you aren't happy and you know it. He is never going to get better until he really wants to, and you wanting him to unfortunately cannot force it on him.

*hugs*

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