Wow. This isn't going to help you AT ALL, but David is seriously HAWT. He looks like the kind of cocky asshole I am attracted to also. However, luckily, I didn't marry one of them. I do know the temptation, though!
I say, neither one of these guys is "your guy". You're never going to end up fulfilled in the long run. Keep looking.
So, I stopped reading the minute you said you had to choose between David and Chris and then said David asked you to be his girlfriend if you loose weight. That is a deal-breaker for me. If a guy can not accept you the way you are, they aren't good enough for you. That statement should open your eyes. If it doesn't now, it will years later. Trust me. Not trying to be hard on you here, just giving you some advice. Whatever you choose, I hope it works out. If the decision is strictly based on these two guys, I'm in Chris' corner. However, I don't think you should limit your choices between these two guys. *hugs*
I don't want to be too down on the whole thing, but I am definitely not a fan of David or the way he's treated you. Funny, smart, whatever, he hasn't been fair to you. You shouldn't have to lose weight for someone, plain and simple.
My advice as far as the Chris thing is concerned is...just don't get too far ahead. The immaturity thing, which you don't mind so much now, could turn out to be a huuuuuuuuuge issue later on. Believe me, Mike was immature from the start and it wasn't an issue in the beginning, but was a huge deal after awhile.
I will totally be here for you regardless of what happens. And I really hope you can find something that makes you better as far as the depression is concerned. I wish I had the magic solution, as I haven't ever felt better in my life and wish I knew how to spread that to you and help you find the solution.
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I say, neither one of these guys is "your guy". You're never going to end up fulfilled in the long run. Keep looking.
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My advice as far as the Chris thing is concerned is...just don't get too far ahead. The immaturity thing, which you don't mind so much now, could turn out to be a huuuuuuuuuge issue later on. Believe me, Mike was immature from the start and it wasn't an issue in the beginning, but was a huge deal after awhile.
I will totally be here for you regardless of what happens. And I really hope you can find something that makes you better as far as the depression is concerned. I wish I had the magic solution, as I haven't ever felt better in my life and wish I knew how to spread that to you and help you find the solution.
*hugs*
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