I wish I could tell him how stupid he is. I mean. Really, chasing after a girl who doesn't even spare him a second glance? Wanting to wait for her FOREVER? I wish he'd just open his eyes and see what's good and what's not good for him.
I can't. He'll be heartbroken. But it doesn't matter anymore because according to him, they're quote unquote over.
And yes, we're actually talking about the same him. I find it sort of relieving that I'm not in love with him though everyone else thinks we are in love. But I can't. He's not my type. He's too... girly...
This is sad. He's my male best friend and all I can think is how annoying he is when he's "in love" with people.
I'm so sorry I didn't notice you've replied earlier! And I'm late by... wow, five months. I'm sorry, that's terrible.
I think it's a relief that you're not in love with him, too! I mean, if he's so in love with the other girl (no matter if it's really love, obsession, an infatuation, a crush gone wrong or anything), then it's good you don't feel that way about him, right? That means you're safe from heartbreak, or at least I hope so.
reg, i wish i'm in love with someone. i see people being in a relationship and being so happy and i really want to feel that way. i wonder why i've never been in love with anyone before...
Relationships aren't always happy, Anon. Love isn't always requited. Once it is, it might be that happy phase for a while, but that happiness doesn't last forever.
I don't think that's being cynical. Relationships aren't always happy, and love isn't always requited. That much is true - I think you're being realistic, which is a great quality to have. :)
I would agree with the other Anon and say that relationships aren't always happy, just as love isn't always requited. But I would also agree with you with the whole wondering thing, because I also do. Wonder why I've never felt that way for anyone, that is. I'm sure it's normal, so... just relax about it, okay?
Your time will hopefully come, and I'm sure you'll find someone you feel that way for. :)
I want you to know that you're an awesome person. Don't feel bad or horrible for feeling certain things for certain people, especially when they deserve it. Not all people are worthy of your kindness, so you don't have to be kind to everyone. Trust me on this, wouldn't you? (:
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How about you?
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I wonder why I'm not in love with him.
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Not sure if we're still talking about the same him, but... do you have to be in love with him? D:
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I can't. He'll be heartbroken. But it doesn't matter anymore because according to him, they're quote unquote over.
And yes, we're actually talking about the same him. I find it sort of relieving that I'm not in love with him though everyone else thinks we are in love. But I can't. He's not my type. He's too... girly...
This is sad. He's my male best friend and all I can think is how annoying he is when he's "in love" with people.
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I think it's a relief that you're not in love with him, too! I mean, if he's so in love with the other girl (no matter if it's really love, obsession, an infatuation, a crush gone wrong or anything), then it's good you don't feel that way about him, right? That means you're safe from heartbreak, or at least I hope so.
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i see people being in a relationship and being so happy and i really want to feel that way. i wonder why i've never been in love with anyone before...
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I'm sorry I'm cynical about love. I just am.
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I don't think that's being cynical. Relationships aren't always happy, and love isn't always requited. That much is true - I think you're being realistic, which is a great quality to have. :)
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Your time will hopefully come, and I'm sure you'll find someone you feel that way for. :)
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And yes. Yes, I'd trust you on this. :)
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:)
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