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[sarahspock]

If I ever got married, I would have to have

-my own last name, not his
-a separate bank account
-a separate bedroom, to escape when I needed to
-a separate bed when sleeping next to him didn't feel right
-a separate bathroom that I knew was just mine
-my own friends, not necessarily "mutual"  or "co" friends
-my own schedule maintained
-my own car,

Comments

[rednbeads]

I personally think seperate and private space from each other is of high importance.

[sarahspock]

Me TOO. That was just the first part of it, but I think all the smaller things I'd require were much more frivolous, like