What's hard for me is that I know I want to spawn children eventually. Eventually being when I'm far more settled into a career and can afford to have them.
Every single one of those people that are getting engaged/married/having children make me feel like I have done nothing in my life. Like I *should* be able to afford to get married and have children right-fucking-now, like my life isn't where it's supposed to be at this age, like I should have done more.
Not that any of is actually true. It just feels that way sometimes.
All the other times, I look at those people our age with 2 kids and pregnant with another one and think, "You do know that there are ways to prevent that, right?"
Eh, most of the people I know with kids don't really have it all together, either. We are young! I'm enjoying living a little, I don't want to grow up that fast.
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Every single one of those people that are getting engaged/married/having children make me feel like I have done nothing in my life. Like I *should* be able to afford to get married and have children right-fucking-now, like my life isn't where it's supposed to be at this age, like I should have done more.
Not that any of is actually true. It just feels that way sometimes.
All the other times, I look at those people our age with 2 kids and pregnant with another one and think, "You do know that there are ways to prevent that, right?"
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