a response to responses to criticisms of Dean throughout S9

Dec 15, 2013 19:30

In numerous meta communities, I've seen conversations of S9 which strike me as incomplete about some very important dimensions to the season, and I'd like to respond.
cut for abuse triggers; discusses through the most recent episode )

spn: sammay!, supernatural, spn: season 9, spn: dean what even, abuse, gaslighting

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pocochina December 18 2013, 03:00:56 UTC
HEY THERE ANON #2: I see your comment and I'm mulling over my response, but it's touching on a number of other issues that really deserve their own separate post. I'm leaving it screened for the moment because it's a little more inflammatory than my conflict-adverse self is 100% comfortable having on this particular post BUT I really see and feel your frustration.

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pagerunner December 18 2013, 23:03:13 UTC
This is a great post, thank you for writing it. And for introducing me to gaslighting.

I would think thoughts at you, but it is crunch school time and my brain went and died. But I think the distinction between manipulating reality (ouch, buttons) and the initial choice is a very good distinction to keep in mind. Although I miss Sera Gamble, I do trust Jeremy Carver to address the emotional interdependence and the ugliness that comes with it. He sort of tried to with the Amelia storyline, but it was sort of...unevenly...developed? I don't know, the storyline felt like a waterlogged duck. It tried so hard to fly and it just couldn't get out of the water.

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pocochina December 19 2013, 03:03:58 UTC
oh no, good luck on your exams! I appreciate your taking a minute to read and leave a nice comment.

I loved Sam/Amelia, but I think it was doing something really different from this? I thought it was about Sam experiencing a relationship of equals with someone who was in many ways a lot like him, which made the re-establishment of the toxic dynamic with Dean feel really jarring (to him and to us) instead of just being the usual. And I think that's a huge part of why things could get to the crisis point where he was ready to off himself by the end of the season, was because he finally had some basis for comparison.

And yeah, I was a huge fan of Gamble's seasons as well, but I have to say I'm also a big fan of how willing Carver is to really hone in on the problem here and whale on it for this long. Dean's tendency to, as you say, manipulate people's realities, especially Sam's, has been a big problem for me for a while and it's a relief to see the issue taken as seriously as it's been in the first half of the season.

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pagerunner December 19 2013, 17:39:05 UTC
Oh I quite like your interpretation of Sam/Amelia. It seems so obvious, but was drowned out by other perspectives. I meant that Carver broke the usual co-dependent crazy train reaction of the brothers to the other's death by having Sam live an alternate, healthier life instead of obsessively searching for Dean.

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pocochina December 19 2013, 20:35:51 UTC
It seems so obvious, but was drowned out by other perspectives.

ahaha, other perspectives like all the crying about SAM IS MARGINALLY LESS MISERABLE THIS IS THE WORST THING EVURRRRRR WARBLGRBL BRUDDERS???!?? One could say that. *still side-eying mfers*

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sockkpuppett December 20 2013, 07:22:32 UTC
Yes, yes, a thousand times yes! I've been utterly disgusted with Dean's very *character* since he's gotten back from Purgatory, really. He's hard and unyielding, unteachable and selfish, but he doesn't *look* like any of those things until you delve under the surface of his behavior. He looks caring, but he's really afraid. He speaks that he has Sam's best interests at heart, but he really only has his fear of being without Sam. He acts like it's a sacrifice, but it's really guilt that's driving him. Guilt and fear of what Sam would do if/when he found out. He has utterly violated Sam, stolen Sam's autonomy, lied to him, and has continued to gaslight Sam until now, and now it's too late.

If/when Sam finds out, the healthiest thing he could do is separate himself from Dean. If Sam's even there anymore.

/solidarity rant

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pocochina December 20 2013, 07:48:02 UTC
SOLIDARITY!

I've been utterly disgusted with Dean's very *character* since he's gotten back from Purgatory, really. He's hard and unyielding, unteachable and selfish, but he doesn't *look* like any of those things until you delve under the surface of his behavior.I'm LOVING it, tbqh. Because it's such a ruthless deconstruction of a lot of the stuff most viewers were willing to let slide, or at least give him the benefit of the doubt on, pre-Purgatory and especially during those first few seasons. Like, was the YOU DIDN'T LOOK FOR ME WHO CARES ABOUT YOUR YEAR-LONG NERVOUS BREAKDOWN HOW DARE YOU NOT RIP THE WORLD APART FOR MEEEE of S8 really all that different from the "Sam, you're so SELFISH to have abandoned us for college" of S1? Is the use of an angel to control Sam's mind all that different from the use of a different angel to control Lisa's and Ben's minds? Is his literal dehumanization of Sam, this merging Sam into a being that could well be dependent on angelic grace for the rest of its (super?)natural life, really all that ( ... )

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sockkpuppett December 20 2013, 07:59:59 UTC
It's weird. It takes seeing this articulated by someone NOT ME to understand my own dissatisfactions with SPN these days. I'm not unhappy with Sam and Dean per se (I think this entire situation is utterly *delicious*); I'm unhappy with the writers! Who make the characters do stupid things in an irrational universe. Not the characters. If that makes any sense at all. I'm excited to see all these chickens coming home to roost.

But yes, exactly this--I remember being appalled when Dean had Cas mindwipe Lisa and Ben--as if that would help them at all if demons came calling. If anything, Dean should have had Cas wipe *his* mind so they wouldn't be important to him, or something, but nooooo... I digress. Dean's selfishness is practically preternatural, if you will. Pathological. And other words beginning with 'p.'

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pocochina December 20 2013, 08:38:04 UTC
I'm unhappy with the writers! Who make the characters do stupid things in an irrational universe.But like...that's what makes it good writing, IMO? Because in real life...people do stupid things in an irrational universe, or at least, a universe full of other irrational people doing stupid things. We make bad decisions; we get scared and pretend we aren't; we find ourselves in abusive relationships and convince ourselves that it's ~love ( ... )

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lizwallace_0095 December 29 2013, 20:47:28 UTC
Hi, late to the party here, but I loved everything you said. Also, I cited you in my own post here: http://lizwallace-0095.livejournal.com/1518.html. Hope that's okay. :)

I've been a little estranged from spn fandom (so much crazy!) lately, and I was so excited to stumble across your thoughts and learn that someone is still talking honestly and seriously about these characters. ~~liz

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pocochina December 29 2013, 21:55:36 UTC
Hi there! Thanks for the nice comment and the link.

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