13 is not so unlucky..

Aug 10, 2009 08:41

Today is my anniversary... and while this past year had more ups and downs in our relationship than Sam and Dean did in Season 4 - like the Winchesters... we perservered and are still standing side by side... I have to give credit where its due... and David has busted his ass trying to make amends for the things that went down between us. He's ( Read more... )

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pdragon76 August 10 2009, 14:20:03 UTC
Congratulations on this truly epic achievement, dude. I am constantly in awe of the sacrifice and compromise and communication and accommodation that is necessary for two people to make a marriage work. I don't think I have even a fraction of the selflessness required to pull off a successful relationship for THIRTEEN years.

Be proud. You should be. *hugs*

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nontimebotree August 10 2009, 19:01:42 UTC
WOW! Thank you so much for taking a moment to leave that comment... it means a lot to me that people recognize that 13 years of committing to anything is kinda a miracle in this day and age... and dont feel too bad about being selfish for youself.... most of the success of my marriage was due to my husband being EXTREMELY tolerant of my sometimes anti-social behavior... thanks again!

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albeitslowly August 10 2009, 15:41:08 UTC
Congrats! I think this year marks twelve for Dan and I. We're common law, and I don't remember dates, LOL, but it was 1997, for sure. LOL.

I can totally relate with ups and downs, but they make us all better stronger people... or kill us, LOL.

*throws confetti*

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nontimebotree August 10 2009, 19:03:59 UTC
Thanks hun! I know you know what its like- you've had your fair share of spousal issues too... I've never been one to 'give up' on much of anything and even though I see people trashing their marriages like so much yesterdays newpaper... I guess there's just enough stubborn streak in me to 'hang tough'.

Congrats to you guys as well... in this day and age- any relationship that lasts more than 5 years I think is a miracle.

*does happy dance under rain of confetti*

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