One Big Fucken Step

[memoryseason]

I know I have mentioned it before and I don't want to keep telling you guys the same thing over and over but last night I was looking at the conversation I had with Steve and it just seem more wrong the more I see it

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[rusty_throne]

...that's why cheating is NOT right? How can you say it's right and then be offended by it?

[memoryseason]

I didn't say cheating was right. I said it was natural. To me cheating is understandable and a normal thing. Of course under a set of rules, I guess. Sleeping with other people that you do not care about and have no romantic interest in is not that bad. Though even if I explained it to you you wouldn't understand because you believe it's wrong and if you explained to me that it' is wrong I wouldn't understand because I believe it isn't.

I'm not offended by it. I just meant that I thought he would take a break with the other girls and spend more time with the girl he is more serious with.

[rusty_throne]

*shrugs* I guess you're right. (on the we can't convince each other part ><)

[memoryseason]

Yeah I guess I have been hanging out with the wrong guys.

I don't know. To me there are two types of cheating. If my boyfriend only physically cheated on me but then came back to me and has no second thought about the other girl I wouldn't be so hurt or angry. If I found out I would most likely cry and throw some stuff at him but I would most likely forgive him the next day.

But if I was with someone and my partner had a close female friend I would be more worried. Like if he had a problem and goes to her but not to me or if he was stressed out and wanted to go out to drink and invites her. If he did all this but didn't sleep with her I would still call that cheating and wouldn't accept it.