Re: #6, don't rush on the babies. You've barely been married yet. Take some time to enjoy each others' company first. Once you have a child, you never get this time back.
Thanks for the advice, but we've actually thought and talked about it quite a bit. It's not like we're being flippant and/or impulsive about it. I think everyone and every relationship and every marriage is different, and everyone can decide on their own how to live their lives. I just feel bristled when people (especially anonymous people, I guess) feel the need to force their own morals/ideals/what have you on me. As if we haven't considered it thoroughly? As if I go around dispensing unsolicited advice to people about when they should have babies or get married or go to school? Frankly, it's a decision for my husband and me...and it's irritating when other people think that their opinion is wiser.
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Thanks for the advice, but we've actually thought and talked about it quite a bit. It's not like we're being flippant and/or impulsive about it. I think everyone and every relationship and every marriage is different, and everyone can decide on their own how to live their lives. I just feel bristled when people (especially anonymous people, I guess) feel the need to force their own morals/ideals/what have you on me. As if we haven't considered it thoroughly? As if I go around dispensing unsolicited advice to people about when they should have babies or get married or go to school?
Frankly, it's a decision for my husband and me...and it's irritating when other people think that their opinion is wiser.
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