Perhaps, though, all this can be a bit liberating.
If you define yourself by how you react in a familiar situation, then perhaps something unfamiliar can allow you the rare opportunity to be step out of your ordinary boundaries, and perhaps redefine yourself in a manner ideal for your current situation.
When I'm stuck in a rut, I like to take the time to go out and behave like a tourist, even near home. Sight-seeing. Meeting people I wouldn't ordinarily know. Checking out new things that are usually outside of my typical realm that I might otherwise ignore. Relish the unfamiliar as an opportunity, not a challenge.
know what's worse?
anonymous
November 11 2008, 20:57:07 UTC
That people you hang out with would grow away from you or vice versa. They're right in front of you, you're with them and they're with you, but its not the same and you have no idea when it became different or what did.
At least , for you, there are new people, nice people. And not old ones who somehow ceased to be, because you grew up , or they did.
I am in such similar boat once a while, but I try to do smthing different then routine to keep me motivated. You gotta do the same. Try it out. It works. :)
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If you define yourself by how you react in a familiar situation, then perhaps something unfamiliar can allow you the rare opportunity to be step out of your ordinary boundaries, and perhaps redefine yourself in a manner ideal for your current situation.
When I'm stuck in a rut, I like to take the time to go out and behave like a tourist, even near home. Sight-seeing. Meeting people I wouldn't ordinarily know. Checking out new things that are usually outside of my typical realm that I might otherwise ignore. Relish the unfamiliar as an opportunity, not a challenge.
Confuse-a-cat!
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At least , for you, there are new people, nice people. And not old ones who somehow ceased to be, because you grew up , or they did.
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