helping hands

May 17, 2005 22:58

has anyone here every been a mediator? if so, let me know cuz i need advice.

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erin1776 May 19 2005, 01:07:59 UTC
if by mediator you mean a person who has been in the middle of many arguements and learned all sides simply because they are nosy then yes i have if by mediator you mean someone who actually helped solve these problems then no

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illuminant_love May 22 2005, 02:25:11 UTC
i'm stuck between being a friend and being... me. i can love my friend for who they are or tell them what they really need to hear from someone cuz no one else will tell them.

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I have an account now... so I thought I would validate some lovin' amiresamore May 24 2005, 15:56:49 UTC
Hmm.... tough call. I guess what to do is situational. But instead of being you or being a friend ... why not be a friendly you? It's hard being in the middle. I'm stuck in the middle of my parents' wrath all the time. Everyone kept asking me what I wanted for my birthday this year and what I really want ... no one can get for me. I want my parents to care for each other and respect each other without any fighting and I want my relationship with my mother to be a healthy one. Unfortunately the first request will prob never happen and the second... well... I've already tried everything I know and nothing has really come of it. Such is life though. I keep on rollin' along. One day at a time... looking for the best in everything and everyone. Helping when I can, but trying not to feel guilty if I can't. I'm not so sure this helps at all... but at least you know you aren't alone.

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