I just read this on a Recon profile and I want to save it for posterity

[fireworkboy]

Every boy who has reconciled his submissive nature with the societal pressures of masculine independence deserves to be proud of himself

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[sassafrasolivia]

really good basic stuff thanks for posting :) and thanks for tagging me on lj- far too few of our friends, even leather friends get the i'm a boy even though i'm a femme thing so it always makes my day when folks do :)

[fireworkboy]

I totally get how you and other non-bio-male and/or male-id'd friends of mine are boy-id'd in kink/Ds. Being a "girl" vs being a "boy" in D/s is so different! I was trying to innumerate the difference to my play partner who used to be my girl but is exploring being a boy too and I was trying to explain how, as a Top and a Sir, I ascribe different tasks and protocols to the two roles and why, and it was a really fascinating conversation to have. I think that this list is really basic...one would be surprised how many Tops have broken more than one of these rules with me...I wish I had had this list at those times, it might have empowered me to leave/speak up when those things happened. What are you and you Daddy doing over Christmas break?

[fireworkboy]

I will be in town near NYC from the 21st till the 30th if you wanted to do something like coffee/dinner/etc

[sassafrasolivia]

coffee or something sounds fantastic! let me know what your schedule looks like- my Daddy and i are actually on stay-cation the week between x-mas and new years (yay!)

[quarterling]

He cruised me!