OMFG. I loved how she started with "I'm a married woman" like that suddenly makes her mature enough to handle what they started. I am so freaking glad I'm not 22 anymore. What a horror of poly misteps that was at that age, thankfully there was at least always safer sex practices for me.
Oh agreed, but the whole "she's awful so we're making her have an abortion! And it's her fault I'm helping her bf cheat on her! But we're totally xp'ed in poly, guys!" is just . . .so . . .freaking crazy I don't have the words.
Yeah, it's actually making me feel rather queasy. And I bet the OP thinks she's the hero of the piece, when actually she's going behind another woman's back, trying to convince her partner to leave her and abort their baby, writing stuff about her on the internet...none of it looks good.
I don't care how crazy she is, helping your boyfriend cheat on his pregnant girlfriend is *never* okay.
ONE IN FIVE PARANOIDS ARE RIGHT.
Boyfriend need to honestly stay or go *now* so crazy girlfriend can make the best decision about having an abortion or a baby.
Something strikes me as iffy about this guy too. "She told me she was infertile" is a very weak excuse. So is "She's pregnant and using it as a trap". (That kind of makes me nauseated actually). I'm just amazed the OP is falling for these lines. DTMFA, GTFO, DNPGDNC200$.
But most importantly, stop sneaking around with him.
The descriptions of the boyfriend's behaviour are very worrying. For all we know, this woman is acting "crazy" because she has a dishonest boyfriend trying to force her into poly situations she doesn't want to be in! We have no way of knowing how much of what he's said to the OP is true either.
But apparently, the girlfriend in question is KERAZEE, so much so that she might have sought ought another man to get her pregnant, just so she can trap poor widdle boyfriend forever. Because you never know what KERAZEE people might do! Yeah, because him simply not PUTTING A FUCKING CONDOM ON is such a far-out suggestion.
Agreed, which is why my advice to the OP was to dump the boyfriend. Because whether the girlfriend really is a crazy bitch or not, the boyfriend is treating the OP badly. Either he's allowing himself to be manipulated, thus bringing drama into the OP's life, or he's lying to the OP to cover up his own bad behavior. Either way I think DTMFA is in order!
Is Boderline Personality Disorder the ADD for adults? It seems you can't describe someone who creates drama without having some commented diagnose them with BPD.
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Not entirely fair, though, as I've seen some utter crazy of this kind from plenty of older, though clearly not wiser, posters on the comm.
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ONE IN FIVE PARANOIDS ARE RIGHT.
Boyfriend need to honestly stay or go *now* so crazy girlfriend can make the best decision about having an abortion or a baby.
Something strikes me as iffy about this guy too. "She told me she was infertile" is a very weak excuse. So is "She's pregnant and using it as a trap". (That kind of makes me nauseated actually). I'm just amazed the OP is falling for these lines. DTMFA, GTFO, DNPGDNC200$.
But most importantly, stop sneaking around with him.
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But apparently, the girlfriend in question is KERAZEE, so much so that she might have sought ought another man to get her pregnant, just so she can trap poor widdle boyfriend forever. Because you never know what KERAZEE people might do! Yeah, because him simply not PUTTING A FUCKING CONDOM ON is such a far-out suggestion.
*headdesk*
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:D
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(I forget what the female equivalent saying is...)
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