Comments | dontrideme: [Posted via Rise Bracer - locked from Centaur, open otherwise]

dontrideme

[Posted via Rise Bracer - locked from Centaur, open otherwise]

Mar 30, 2009 01:46

I think something is wrong with my tamer. I mean, he's finally adjusting and settling in here, which is great. But he's still acting really strange. I just don't understand him ( Read more... )

worst plan ever, not the brightest plan, leormon finds his tamer too confusing., leormon is being a moron

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techsavytabby March 30 2009, 08:23:56 UTC

Hello and salutations!

I am Kats Lucas, we met when your tamer first arrived? While I am far from an expert I've spent enough time around some of the RM's I should be able to help.

Worst case scenario? I'm a very good listener.

dontrideme March 30 2009, 22:33:10 UTC

I remember you. You really think you can help? Cen isn't likely to cooperate, and I kind of am asking without permission.

Having a listener only helps if he's actually willing to talk. He won't, as much as I've tried.

techsavytabby March 30 2009, 22:38:17 UTC

My only promise is I'd be willing to try and give it my best attempt. I cannot say for sure if it would help. If you believe he would be more comfortable with another mechanical lifeform then I perhaps wouldn't be the best choice but my offer remains if you wish to accept.

dontrideme March 30 2009, 22:59:53 UTC

I couldn't ask any more of you. And I'm not sure what he'd be more comfortable dealing with. He's so strange about things.

Could it be something wrong with him?

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killerweathrman March 30 2009, 18:18:42 UTC

... I could hang with him for a bit. Maybe train him some, try to get him into the whole "fighter" groove...!

dontrideme March 30 2009, 22:39:44 UTC

I'm not sure how well that would work. He tends to get really nervous when fighting is even mentioned, even if it's not serious fighting.

killerweathrman March 31 2009, 19:37:40 UTC

Well, with all due respect, he needs to get over it at SOME point.

dontrideme March 31 2009, 19:48:09 UTC

I know he does. That's why I decided to ask around for outside advice. It's kind of hard to do anything about it as it is. He won't even talk to me.

upgradedtohero March 31 2009, 00:21:01 UTC

Some people are just easily frightened. Even if he's fought before, it doesn't mean he's a fighter. And the fighting he did before was more then likely a really bad experience. People have a hard time talking about stuff like that to even those they're close to.

So I guess what I'm getting at it is- don't go looking for quick fixes to his problems. You'll only hurt him.

dontrideme March 31 2009, 02:54:38 UTC

I'm worried about him. And he won't answer a single question that I ask. I'm only looking for outside help because I'm worried about him. He's my responsibility as my tamer.

I know there's not likely a quick fix. But there has to be something.

upgradedtohero March 31 2009, 03:19:00 UTC

I know. But if he doesn't want to answer you, you can't make him. If it's okay, what are you asking him?

dontrideme March 31 2009, 04:07:23 UTC

I can't just leave him to face it alone either. He's my tamer. I tried at first to outright ask him questions about some of the things I've heard, but he responded badly. Lately I'm just talking to him about things like my past, and hoping he might open up a little. Nothing has changed though.

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