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my poor schmookie. your parents suck. and i love you. and josh is a great guy no matter what they think. so screw em. i know there your parents and you love them and they are just looking out for you but screw em. its your life to make of it what you want, its not theirs to live or take from.
so there! :)
and call me when you need to talk you know i am always here. even if you do call me a bridezilla. :-P i am happy that i get to see you in 4 weeks and try and take your mind off shit.
sometimes, yes they suck. it may not be their life but they are still a part of my life and it does suck to have that segregation...that will likely be more out of need than for the sake of my sanity soon enough.
heheh i call you a bridezilla with love, just as i have called you a ho with love :)
i need that weekend with you guys and to get away it will be good for me
A Journal of yours that I actually read all of.spidermartMay 20 2008, 17:44:37 UTC
It's not often that I can read an entire entry of yours in one sitting, you know this. However much sadness this topic may bring to your heart, take comfort that your beautiful writing style still finds a way to make me happy whilst reading it.
I don't have much advice to offer that you don't already know... I think we ALL go through crap w/ parents regarding relationships of any form. My mom so approved of Brad before we ever started dating and now that we've been together like umm 10 yrs or so (and married nearly 4) my mom still loves him, just doesn't love the fact that he can't support us...he once promised that he wanted to do that, to make sure that me working was only an option.
The first time I was in the hospital she ONLY visited me twice (out of 9/10 days) while grandma, though she had worked like every day, came to visit nearly every day (to find mom was pissed at Brad for being there w/ me and NOT working)
so yeah, relationships are hard/get hard...and money is a necessity...but with the right help (friends and what not) you get through regardless of what parents say
wow, I don't know if a point was in that "babble" or not, but I hope you get it...?? ((hugs))
i love you girl i dont get all sappy cuz thats not me most of the time but i am so glad you have found josh and become a member of the sappy ass club of women with men - no matter what your parents say - your heart is right and your brain is smart enough to know what is right
i love you too lisa /end sap thank you, it helps that every friend i have is as supportive of josh and i as they are. if y'all weren't it would be a huge red flag...or actually green flag...green telling me to run away as fast as i could!
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so there! :)
and call me when you need to talk you know i am always here. even if you do call me a bridezilla. :-P i am happy that i get to see you in 4 weeks and try and take your mind off shit.
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heheh i call you a bridezilla with love, just as i have called you a ho with love :)
i need that weekend with you guys and to get away it will be good for me
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thank you my marty, as always just, thank you.
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I think we ALL go through crap w/ parents regarding relationships of any form.
My mom so approved of Brad before we ever started dating and now that we've been together like umm 10 yrs or so (and married nearly 4) my mom still loves him, just doesn't love the fact that he can't support us...he once promised that he wanted to do that, to make sure that me working was only an option.
The first time I was in the hospital she ONLY visited me twice (out of 9/10 days) while grandma, though she had worked like every day, came to visit nearly every day (to find mom was pissed at Brad for being there w/ me and NOT working)
so yeah, relationships are hard/get hard...and money is a necessity...but with the right help (friends and what not) you get through regardless of what parents say
wow, I don't know if a point was in that "babble" or not, but I hope you get it...??
((hugs))
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i dont get all sappy cuz thats not me most of the time
but i am so glad you have found josh and become a member of the sappy ass club of women with men - no matter what your parents say - your heart is right and your brain is smart enough to know what is right
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thank you, it helps that every friend i have is as supportive of josh and i as they are. if y'all weren't it would be a huge red flag...or actually green flag...green telling me to run away as fast as i could!
thank you for your faith in my silly brain/heart
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