We've all decided

[cornerofmadness]

That for my parents and at least myself, there isn't going to be viewings and big church services. My religious cousin was utterly scandalized by this. Too bad, this was all too much. The Catholic church was insanely hot. I did the reading. Made it through by never looking up from the book because if I could do that I could divorce myself from the

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[spikesgirl58]

Good for you! You should do as you please, not what pleases others.

[cornerofmadness]

Seriously. Wouldn't surprise me if they tried to override our choice (good luck). My suggestion is have a mass said for us later in the year if you want. My parents want a celebration of life party NOT a depressing 3 day slog

[spikesgirl58]

We put our wishes in our trust. Not that either of us have any family left to contest anything. Just the boy and Wendy and they are both executors.

[cornerofmadness]

It's just me and my brother for my parents and me there is literally no one so it should be simple enough