Life - in general and virtual

[colourful_light]

I'm writing this entry now because I accidentally came across some really hateful and mean comments in this fandom.

I don't know any of the persons involved, but it scared and saddened me too much. And I don't even want to think what that comment did to the destined person.

Comments

[eirazm]

HATE is truly a harsh word. I would prefer if they use dislike instead.

Some people are just mean that way. & i agree with you.... if they don't like the journal, why read?

& whatever written on our blog is our right. it's up to the readers whether they want to read it or not. They have no right to questions whatever people write on their journal.

If i ever get those mean comment... i would feel very disturbed and down. luckily i didn't get any so far. hope we all won't get those mean comment ne.

cheer up.

p/s: sorry for rambling.

[colourful_light]

I used 'hate' because that person actually stated she hated the other in that comment and then she said some awfully mean and cruel stuff. I would be totally devastated if I ever got such a comment.

Yeah, let's hope none of us or, better, anyone won't get such comments ever.
I believe those two had some issues in personal life as well, hence all the drama. But the comment was anonymous so she didn't know who the other was.

I'm so sad for those two. I really am...

[sheenalinh]

Adela said that she found the link to my own Akame evidence post being ridiculed in a hate meme (she declined to give me the link btw). It made me so sad too, cuz all of the Akame posts I made, I only share them in Akame_ community, a community that made for Akame fans only. Even I myself encountered some hilarious Akame posts, if I dont like it, I dont comment on it, if I do, then I'll flail. It's as simply as that. Loving a yaoi pair is some personal taste right? And we create all these "evidence" thing is just for fun to me v____v well.... but going so far as mocking others' posts are really cruel.
I dont know why I'm babbling here ... sorry

[colourful_light]

You are so right, Sheena.
I'm sorry for what happened to you and I think Adela did a good thing by not giving you the link. I can imagine how you could have reacted.
But, like I said, some people are sick and just follow some journals or communities to later make fun of others. I don't get those. Don't they have something better to do? There are other ways to express your feelings without hurting someone.
Again, I'm rambling. I'll stop now XD

[sheenalinh]

i just wanna know what is it about and who posted it, as clearly as it was. Cuz hearing from another person may not judge the situation accurately.
If that one is in my friendlist, I will ban her, or just defriend her cuz simply for her staying in my list is not appropriate anymore cuz me and her sharing different common sense.

[colourful_light]

I can only tell you it wasn't about Akame or KAT-TUN or anything fandom related, but it was someone from this fandom.
And I don't know who that person was because it was an anonymous comment.
Don't worry, I don't think she does that on daily basis. I suppose the mean one knew the owner of the journal in real life as well and had some issues with her (she knew some really personal stuff). But the other knew nothing about that and the post was a total surprise.
Please, understand, I can't tell you more. Although this entry was unlocked, the whole journal was meant to be f-locked, except for a couple of entries. I just got there by clicking the wrong link.
I don't like talking about other people's problems, I'm just warning you that such things can happen.

[vee_keikei]

i agree.
although it's never happened to me, and i hope it never will .. it does annoy me to see other people bashing on others. it's as simply as, "if you don't have anything nice to say, then don't say anything at all," and if they don't like it, then why do they read it in the first place ? =\

[colourful_light]

Exactly! Don't like it, don't read it!