Merry Chestnut and Trout!!

[charlie_aoxue]

One of my friends gave me this japanese pun:

Kurisumasu (Christmas)

Chestnut: Kuri

And: su

Trout: masu

!!!

MERRY CHESTNUT AND TROUT TO YOU ALL!!!!!! XDD

Grand-Aunt passed away on the 20th of December 2009, 9:46 am.  I still miss her but… somewhere in my heart, I get this feeling that she didn’t die. She just went back to her

Comments

[darkleha]

I know what you mean.. my grandma passed away earlier this year.. it's hard.. but I knew she held on until i could be here.. she passed away just as I got to her house.. she knew we were all here to say goodbye at that point.. that it was okay to let go.

When it comes to those of our relatives that are much older and it's become their 'time' to go.. it's easier to let them leave.. because we know in our hearts it's an easier, softer place. I miss my grandma all the time.. I cry for her constantly.. but I'm being given the opportunity to say my final goodbyes in such a way that I'll always be grateful.

You'll always miss her.. but you'll also always know that she's in a place where she can watch over you and help guide you down the path that is best for your life.

Just remember to spend more time celebrating her life.. and less time mourning her death. ^_^

[redbeanpetit4s]

well, there is a legend saying' those that cried the most after a dead person, will be haunted with grief the most.'
I think you is saying that, it's very sad when one dies. but it would be sadder to keep on the grudge. Like it's a good not to forget about someone. But it is not good to keep on thinking about it...yeaa
i hopw you are feeling better!