I've been avoiding this website

[bevfank]

 Ever since the Lie to Me news I just couldn't look at anything but for some reason I went back to twitter and tumblr but not eljay. Plus eljay seems to be under siege half the time anyway.

Hooooowever xfirefly9x poked me (weeksssss ago) so instead of posting this on tumblr it will go on here.

I'm 5'3" and a half and I weigh 110 pounds the last time I checked.

Comments

[acolyte33]

Hear hear! That's all I can say really, I hate weight comparisons and I really hate when people say, "You've lost weight, you look really good!" A. No I haven't, I've gained. B. Did I look like total shit before?

Sorry, didn't mean to rant on top of your rant!

*HUGS*

[bevfank]

Oh hey you! How are you?

Exxxxxactly. And there are so many factors that go into how much you weigh and what size you wear that you can't possibly measure up to someone else. unless you have an identical twin I guess.

((hugs))

[maura3]

You don't listen to them! You're a healthy, active young woman. I don't know whey people feel the need to comment about someone's physical appearance other than with a genuine compliment, but they do. Just remember to your family, true friends, God and yourself you are perfect as you are.

[bevfank]

~sidenote~ love your icon hehe

I had a cousin who lost a lot of weight and looked great but because he never said anything about trying to lose all I told him was "You look great." lol and then my grandma just came out and told him he looked so much slimmer but whatever.

Thanks for the comment <3

[jr_moon]

isn't it terrible when women obsess over weight as if it means anything? As if it is a status symbol. As if they have a right to comment on other people's bodies. *sigh* I get a lot of comments because I'm so skinny and cannot help it. Just, as you said, never compare. Just be happy with yourself. (Also, I wish people would say "Real women have curves/no curves/long hair/blond hair/black...." because we all are, no matter how we look. *nod*)

*hugs*

[bevfank]

((hugs))

That "real women have curves" phrase has always bothered me too. Real women are all women.

[nonniej88]

Have to admit when I was a bridesmaid at my mums wedding I hated the fact that my step sister was in a dress smaller than my own.
Considering I have been anorexic in the past I shouldn't have let it get to me, but hey ho, it did... But I got over it!
I'm happy with the size I am now.. to me I am just right!... And I love to compliment others who feel they are too skinny, or feel they are too big.. There is nothing wrong with peoples shapes or sizes... to me its the personality of the person that counts :)!

[bevfank]

Hugs all around!

Compliments are lovely, especially I think if the person has brought up the subject first.

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[anonymous]

Thought I would comment and say neat theme, did you make it for yourself? It's really awesome!

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[bevfank]

Thank you! I did not make the theme but I did make the banner. ^_^