nothing special here
you know, what life taught me? there no "the one" for u out there, there is the person u get attached to, and then the alpha person forces the other one to change in order to fit better, the longer the relationship goes the more severe the personality mutation becomes, and when the break up occurs, usually the changed person gets the shitty end of the deal, because he or she have changed so much for the person they have become custom fit, and can not be attracted to other people, the other person on the other hand, becomes comfortable with the other's new personality they feel that they have the right to "just be friends" with'em even tho they hurt'em so bad