Story time!
I thought I'd fill you in one my last relationship~
So I was in this long distance relationship for 4 years; First he was out of state, then he was in the military. At first things are peachy. I think 4 years in the military, I can wait! So I do; We keep close contact and things are good for the most part... Now what you need to understand is that I was young when we first started dating...I was naive and still in high school. After awhile he starts talking marriage, and being as young as I was, was thrilled that someone wanted to get married to me. After awhile I started to think a little more rationally...AKA: I got older and my feelings for the guy started to change. What I wanted to do with my life and what he wanted to do went out of sync. He's the dreamer type that wants to travel, but has no real plans of how to go about doing it. I'm very practical; I like plans, and I'm not very interested in traveling. He started to get mad that I wasn't supporting his dream to travel; He started to say I was closed minded for not silently agreeing with him! Fighting became common with us and in the end I broke up with him.
He told all his friends I broke up with him because I "got bored of him" and became a bit of a man slut.
I personally think I made the right call....He doesn't. During the last week he called me and it was WEIRD. His mood was all over the place...It scared me. He told me how much he missed me and asked me "When are you going to forget about this break up nonsense?" I made it VERY clear that our break up was final. He got very mad and said "If I ever see you in the arms of another man I'll kill him."
It freaked me out, and now I'm a little worried...I hope this doesn't escalate into a stalker situation...
So I was in this long distance relationship for 4 years; First he was out of state, then he was in the military. At first things are peachy. I think 4 years in the military, I can wait! So I do; We keep close contact and things are good for the most part... Now what you need to understand is that I was young when we first started dating...I was naive and still in high school. After awhile he starts talking marriage, and being as young as I was, was thrilled that someone wanted to get married to me. After awhile I started to think a little more rationally...AKA: I got older and my feelings for the guy started to change. What I wanted to do with my life and what he wanted to do went out of sync. He's the dreamer type that wants to travel, but has no real plans of how to go about doing it. I'm very practical; I like plans, and I'm not very interested in traveling. He started to get mad that I wasn't supporting his dream to travel; He started to say I was closed minded for not silently agreeing with him! Fighting became common with us and in the end I broke up with him.
He told all his friends I broke up with him because I "got bored of him" and became a bit of a man slut.
I personally think I made the right call....He doesn't. During the last week he called me and it was WEIRD. His mood was all over the place...It scared me. He told me how much he missed me and asked me "When are you going to forget about this break up nonsense?" I made it VERY clear that our break up was final. He got very mad and said "If I ever see you in the arms of another man I'll kill him."
It freaked me out, and now I'm a little worried...I hope this doesn't escalate into a stalker situation...