Relationships are _______
"[Intimacy] means feeling natural and comfortable in the presence of someone else. It means being totally unself-conscious, relaxing into simply being yourself. If you want to be yourself, you have to be willing to reveal yourself. For every secret you keep, you must tense up a bit to keep it from view."
-A Fine Romance, Judith Sills Ph. D., p 54.
What do you do when you assumptions may be wrong, cause and effect and cause are intertwined, fundamentals and effects are no longer clearly delineated, and communication has been nearly nil on the part of both parties, until all of a sudden when much becomes more clear? Hmm?
So lemme have it. Really.
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EDIT: the request is for input on my current/former/can't tell relationship.
-A Fine Romance, Judith Sills Ph. D., p 54.
What do you do when you assumptions may be wrong, cause and effect and cause are intertwined, fundamentals and effects are no longer clearly delineated, and communication has been nearly nil on the part of both parties, until all of a sudden when much becomes more clear? Hmm?
So lemme have it. Really.
Comments screened unless you request I unscreen them.
EDIT: the request is for input on my current/former/can't tell relationship.