One of my students today apologised in e-mail for missing last night's class. She did not mention that she had also missed an extra-help session I had arranged with her for before the class. She works in retail, and had to close the store. I understand this.
She also asked whether she could hand in last week's homework next week, and whether I could send her this week's lesson.
No, and no.
Last week's homework was to do some research to prepare for an in-class discussion. This week's lesson involved taking up the quiz my students wrote last week, the aforementioned class discussion, a brief discussion of editing fiction for which I don't have a typed-up lesson plan or handout prepared, a brief discussion of audience analysis for non-fiction editing (technical, educational, and instructional for the most part), and groupwork on their ongoing in-class project, during which I spent about five minutes working with each group.
Thing is, I felt like it was a pretty good class. The discussion of fiction editing was lively, and I think we looked at a lot of the key skills that fiction editors need. I think they get the idea of working with the author to make the story work for the readers. Working with the groups gave me a good sense that most of them have a clear understanding of the readerships for their respective publications, that they are thinking about visual materials to support the text, and that they're going to be able to craft a publication that meets their readers' needs within the format of the publication they've chosen, and let me address individual problem areas.
I wound up spending about 20 minutes after class working with a few students to clear up some misconceptions and problem areas, and that was fine.
I can't reproduce any of that in an e-mail.
What really gets me, though, is the sheer entitlement. I know that my students can't always make class, and that life can interfere. But it's their responsibility to manage that, and find a note-taking buddy. It's not my job to make sure students who miss class, for whatever reason, get the material I deliver in class, by hook or by crook. It's my job to provide 270 hours of in-class instruction and assessment (not including marking or prep, for which I do not get compensated). That's 3 compensated teaching hours, per week. I generally spend another 3-9 hours each week prepping the next week's lesson and marking. Once per semester, I teach a class almost entirely off-the-cuff, because I haven't had time to prep, and I'm just barely good enough at what I do to pull that off (I have a bunch of material I can use for extra lessons). I don't have a textbook, so I've had to assemble all instructional materials from scratch. And there's no rule that says I have to have every lesson written down, so I don't always write lessons down, beyond the bare outlines.
So, no. No, I'm not going to send last night's lesson to this student. You really did just have to be there.