Dec 11, 2008 23:12
I ran into a guy I used to hang with the other week, I not sure if I mentioned it or not but he called into the club where I work tonight and we chatted a little and he asked me to go have a drink with him after I finished, I agreed but was a little nervous..............why? Well this guy is someone I used to fool around with on occasions in a sexual way and he was and still is very very very bloody cute looking and fun to hang with.
I knew he would get a little flirty and I knew I probably would let him a little so am I mean for going, I know he also has broken up with his ex last month and is dealing with loosing every day access to his 3yrold son and I felt sorry for him so I went with him to the pub and we just sat and chatted he talked alot about his son and how hard he is finding it not seeing him every day like he used to but he is still happy he gets to see him 4 days a week so its better than nothing and he is just going on about how much he changed to be with his son and how bad it was with the mother and how he is glad thou that they can atleast still be friends for the kids sake and blah blah blah I was listening lol I just dont feel like typing it all LOL.
He flirted a bit but I stopped him and didnt flirt back, I referred the conversation to Patrick (my boyfriend) a fair bit and he knows I have a boyfriend and every time my phone beeped with a text message he kept asking is that your boyfriend checking up on ya? It wasnt I hadnt spoke to Patrick today and I told him no its not him.
He walked me home (which is only a small detour from his place, which was nice cause we dont live in the best area LOL) and I gave him my number told him to text me when he got home to let me know he was alright and gave him a hug, he tried to kiss me a bit but I stopped him and said no cant do that, he said fine just wanted to try LOL.
So now I am thinking do I have something in this night that I should tell Patrick about???
I didnt do anything with this guy just chatted (granted a little about the times we had together LOL but in no way did I suggest I would want to re-enact those days) and he mainly spoke and sounded sad about his son.
Should I say something to patrick? Obviously not tell him that this guy tried to kiss me but should I even mentioned I ran into him or that we had a drink together??
Whats the normal protocol for his sort of stuff, I like this guy he is a cool guy but I dont want anything to happen with him cause I like Patrick but I do wanna be a mate with this guy providing he dont try anything.