DH has a tam pin which I believe is pewter, and has a pin back that *should* be soldered on. However, as you've likely surmised by now, it NOT attached.
Anyone out there who can affix it properly (would likely need some sort of specialized solder, I've been informed that the stuff I use on electrical wiring won't work) for a reasonable amount of paypal,
Fifth House merch, or
massage?