Say NO to Bullying - Andrea, her Mitch drabble, and Me

[zhouhua00]

Say NO to Bullying - Andrea, her Mitch drabble, and Me
I NEVER expect my second journal will be something like this.

Several days ago I received a VERY NASTY message from Andrea (grieving_pln) accusing me to be a fraud and loser. At the same time she said there are readers there (at least five of them, with number increasing by the day) who want to

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Yayayay Hua!!!!!

[luvenck]

I have to pat you on the back, and compliment you for having the nerve to actually write this. If you would have been the same as the rest of us. you probably would have buried your head, and felt like leaving the fandom. When I had somebody slam me, I DID leave for a short time. I was humiliated and embarrassed, even though nobody knew about it. I also know of a few similar situations such as mine. I know a few people have commented that when this happens to someone, we should post something "BIG" in our journal, stating their name and what they said. (An eye of an eye-that is "My" comment) AND just look at you. I congratulate you for standing up for yourself.

Secondly... I don't like Mo/Ennis (Moving on Ennis) stories in the first place, but I thought I'd certainly give it a try. I think I read about 7 chapters, and it was all I could stand. I commented to her in a PM, and apologized that I just couldn't read them anymore. That SAME day, I WAS REMOVED FROM HER FRIENDS LIST!

As far as the DRABBLES... Besides myself, I know of 4 other people that took BBS off their communities, because our whole journals were filled with NOTHING but her Drabbles. I know of better things I would rather read on my journal.

What Andrea did is so wrong. Everybody, as you say, is allowed to their own opinions, and their choice of reading material. She should not have said what she did to you.

And Once again, I applaud you for writing this publicly, so everybody can see what happened.

Much Love,
Cat

Re: Yayayay Hua!!!!!

[zhouhua00]

Thank you Cat!

Obviously I am not the first one she bullied.

The other day I passed my son's classroom and I saw a big sign 'SAY NO TO BULLYING'.

That's what I did here, I say NO to her bullying. I did this because I want to set up a good example for my son. :)

Hua

Re: Yayayay Hua!!!!!

[luvenck]

I also wanted to tell you that somebody slammed me so hard, said awful things to me, to the point that I could not even write anymore. Thus sits my first story with 3 chapters.

Re: Yayayay Hua!!!!!

[zhouhua00]

Hug hug...Cat, I am sorry that happened to you.

I think you need to be strong and do not let anyone bully you, no matter if it is a reader or writer.

I am going to write a mini-serial about homosexuality and China, and I can promise you right now I won't let anyone bully me off.

Hua