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I talked to SoilGuy yesterday for the first time in two months. He's a guy I met on match.com - we talked on the phone a few times, went out twice. For some reason, I decided I *did* want to open up that can of worms again and got in touch with him.
Turns out he's dated (and broken up with) someone in the interim and he now has a correspondence going with another woman and it's going well. It's not as bad as I thought, though. The call kinda cemented the feeling that it wouldn't have worked out with us anyhow. He's a decent guy, but I guess I really do need to feel a serious spark there before I'll let someone in. And there really wasn't one there right off the bat. Besides, our conversations are still awkward, and that's not a good sign.
But he was the only bite I've gotten since breaking up with the Deek a couple years ago. I guess I just wanted to make sure I was giving him a fair shake.
Turns out he's dated (and broken up with) someone in the interim and he now has a correspondence going with another woman and it's going well. It's not as bad as I thought, though. The call kinda cemented the feeling that it wouldn't have worked out with us anyhow. He's a decent guy, but I guess I really do need to feel a serious spark there before I'll let someone in. And there really wasn't one there right off the bat. Besides, our conversations are still awkward, and that's not a good sign.
But he was the only bite I've gotten since breaking up with the Deek a couple years ago. I guess I just wanted to make sure I was giving him a fair shake.