Apr 28, 2006 11:18
Wow I was completely surprised on how people responded to my new "Rant" LJ hee hee he's another then I need to make one for my other normal LJ ^_^
I covered the animal childless nuts now I want to cover what bugs me about Boob Nazi from one end to the other. heee heee
Okay so what is a Boob Nazi some of you more then likely know snickering at this post already...Boob Nazi and yes this is what they call them selves are parents that feel if you don't brest feed your child with EVER ounce of your being you are a horrible parent, they do a damn good job of degrading any poor woman who try's and asks for help who is having what ever troubles.
Q: (Please help I have no milk it's been days and he/she is still crying to eat I'm starting to think I'll have to start him/her on formula)
A: (You are not trying hard enough, even thinking about formula feeding is horrible blah blah blah evil bad parent you are)
Yep this is about what you'll see when you talk to them, maybe not every one of them but damn close... Okay I am a believer breast IS better then bottle, of course it is I breast fed Bryce and Faith for a Loooong time, Xander on the other hand I wasn't getting milk in, I tried it all Nada never enough, so I had to go to bottle.
I feel so bad for these first time parents that want to Brest feed and just can't.
They are belittled and called names for what.. Does doing what you think is right make you a "bad" parent. Huh?? so let me get this straight... I Breast feed Bryce till he was 8 months.... Faith till she was 14 months and wasn't able to brest feed Xander and now because of that I'm horrible and awful parent.. COME ON!!!
We as parents should be helping each other not belittling each other or trying to force what "we" I use that term loosely. believe is the right thing. It's like pretty much everything we do in life there's more then one way to do things. not everything is Black and white there a Major grey area there people....
There being passionate about something there's a fine fine line between passion and being a complete and utter tit. (Pun in tented)
GET OVER YOUR TIT'S WOMAN yes feed your baby's be happy that they are healthy! HELP people who need it STOP telling them they are bad evil horrible parent because they just can't seem to do it right.
Now like before Shake your head... yes you can do it now smash it into a wall because come on, what good does it REALLY do when you belittle these poor people but make them NOT want to come to anyone for help with anything. Sad sad sad.
Anyways I think the point to this post was, get over your self and your tit's your not better then the woman who can't do it. contrary to your ideal they DO love their children very much.
dumbasses..
/ end rant