Re: YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING?zeratul1135November 11 2004, 05:00:45 UTC
"because noone really cares" first of all, I care. second of all, you have no right to tell anyone what they can or can't say in their own journals. How would you like it if someone told you what you could or could not ever think about in your own privacy? if you have a problem with anything that's being said in anyone's journals, just stop reading. noone's making you read them, and they're sure as hell not here for your entertainment. If she feels like venting out paranoia, or something like that, it's up to her.
now some advice, as Mashoyly always does... or trys, at least...
Sara, don't worry about who does or does not like Greg. just be happy you got there first. I'm sure Greg will make the right decisions, and if you're unable to ever trust him, then just think of how it felt to lose him. If you don't want to feel that way, you're gonna hafta loosen your reigns a bit. Greg cares for you more than I can comprehend, and would never do anything to hurt you. Give him room, and let whomever likes him like him. You can't change people's friends, or how their friends feel about them. I'll use an example that you'll probably take particular joy from, as you like to find a way to torment me with Katie at every turn... Thomas doesn't care that I like Katie. You know why? he truely loves her, in which case, trust ensues. Yes, I know people do cheat on other people in the real world, but only if you give them a reason to. Look at it this way... The looser your reigns on Greg, the more he wants to keep you around, cuz ur not being too difficult. THErefore, he doesn't want to do anything to upset you to cause you to leave him. Therefore, he stays loyal and true. If you give a dog a biscuit, they'll stay by your side. If you whip the dog, it'll run away first chance it gets. There you have it. Complete with your favorite subjects... Katie and Dogs...
now some advice, as Mashoyly always does... or trys, at least...
Sara, don't worry about who does or does not like Greg. just be happy you got there first. I'm sure Greg will make the right decisions, and if you're unable to ever trust him, then just think of how it felt to lose him. If you don't want to feel that way, you're gonna hafta loosen your reigns a bit. Greg cares for you more than I can comprehend, and would never do anything to hurt you. Give him room, and let whomever likes him like him. You can't change people's friends, or how their friends feel about them.
I'll use an example that you'll probably take particular joy from, as you like to find a way to torment me with Katie at every turn... Thomas doesn't care that I like Katie. You know why? he truely loves her, in which case, trust ensues. Yes, I know people do cheat on other people in the real world, but only if you give them a reason to. Look at it this way... The looser your reigns on Greg, the more he wants to keep you around, cuz ur not being too difficult. THErefore, he doesn't want to do anything to upset you to cause you to leave him. Therefore, he stays loyal and true. If you give a dog a biscuit, they'll stay by your side. If you whip the dog, it'll run away first chance it gets. There you have it. Complete with your favorite subjects... Katie and Dogs...
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