My Boyfriend is a Huge Fucking Dickwad!
Yes, yes he is.
We had a fight, then settled it. And then he had to pull this shit.
Let me start with the first fight:
We were going to see a play. And during our "conversations" he kept fucking interrupting me and wouldn't stop talking once he did interrupt! THAT'S what really pissed me off.
So it turned out there were no seats left. Then we asked me a question about the person's wording, where I was going to reply (because I was aware of why she said it) but he just kept fucking talking. I tried replying again but he just kept going! Fucking pissed me off (not to mention I had a headache before this--it just got worse) so I just stopped talking.
Then it was dead silent on the way back to his dorm. I asked him why and he said that it was my fault. I quote, "Well you kind of made it quiet."
So, I asked him what that meant. He said that it was because I got upset. I asked, "...so you get quiet when someone gets upset?" He said that's just what he's learned over time. So I asked him more about that, he was extremely reluctant to give me any examples. He kept saying "Everytime I talk when someone's upset, I always make it worse." I explained to him that when someone gets upset usually they want someone to help them not be upset.
He said something about he can't help it, he just makes it worse, and other shit like that. Then he asked what I wanted (like he always does).
And I tried to calm down a bit before saying anything because I didn't want it to come out harshly, but he badgered me to hurry up and say it. So I told him (slightly harshly) that I wanted him to stop interrupting me. He said he can't help it, he does it without thinking, blah blah. I told him he could think about it then, he has enough brains for it. He said he already thinks a lot. I told him, "What's another couple of thoughts?"
Well that ended and I stayed for a while, but he said he had to finish something quick so I could play a game that he had. I did...got bored. Started watching TV and he's still playing WoW. I asked him if he was going to play that all night and he said no.
So I got him an AMP from downstairs because he said he had a craving for caffeine. AND I gave him a back-rub because his back was hurting. And he's still playing WoW and it's 11:00pm (we got done fighting around 8:00 or 8:30). So I asked him again, "Are you going to play that all night?" And he said yes! What a douche!
I told him that he said no before and he said he couldn't imagine himself saying that because he promised Jack he would be online all weekend so they could go raid.
Now this was wrong on many levels: 1) He never mentioned this before, 2) I asked him if we were going to do anything after the play and he replied that he didn't know yet [this was right before I left to pick him up], 3) he freaking lied saying that he wasn't going to play it all night!
He could've mentioned that he promised his friend he was going to play with him all weekend. I would've understood and stayed home (because I don't want to watch that shit all night).
So needless-to-say, I left pretty angry.
What happened before I left: [I said I was leaving, he asked why, I said "because what am I going to do? just sit here", he said "I'm watching TV with you", I told him "No, you're playing WoW", he said he could multi-task, I said...I forgot what I said, I was really pissed by this point. I think I said something about not wanting that (along those lines). So he said he couldn't do anything about it because he promised Jack...blah blah. I said then keep you're promise to Jack, and I left. He said "ok...bye." I said "bye"]
There. *whew*
So yeah, he seems like he doesn't care that much whether I stay or go really. Not to mention he lied about it.
This all could've been avoided if he just told me this before-hand. Fuck!
Fucking dickwad!
We had a fight, then settled it. And then he had to pull this shit.
Let me start with the first fight:
We were going to see a play. And during our "conversations" he kept fucking interrupting me and wouldn't stop talking once he did interrupt! THAT'S what really pissed me off.
So it turned out there were no seats left. Then we asked me a question about the person's wording, where I was going to reply (because I was aware of why she said it) but he just kept fucking talking. I tried replying again but he just kept going! Fucking pissed me off (not to mention I had a headache before this--it just got worse) so I just stopped talking.
Then it was dead silent on the way back to his dorm. I asked him why and he said that it was my fault. I quote, "Well you kind of made it quiet."
So, I asked him what that meant. He said that it was because I got upset. I asked, "...so you get quiet when someone gets upset?" He said that's just what he's learned over time. So I asked him more about that, he was extremely reluctant to give me any examples. He kept saying "Everytime I talk when someone's upset, I always make it worse." I explained to him that when someone gets upset usually they want someone to help them not be upset.
He said something about he can't help it, he just makes it worse, and other shit like that. Then he asked what I wanted (like he always does).
And I tried to calm down a bit before saying anything because I didn't want it to come out harshly, but he badgered me to hurry up and say it. So I told him (slightly harshly) that I wanted him to stop interrupting me. He said he can't help it, he does it without thinking, blah blah. I told him he could think about it then, he has enough brains for it. He said he already thinks a lot. I told him, "What's another couple of thoughts?"
Well that ended and I stayed for a while, but he said he had to finish something quick so I could play a game that he had. I did...got bored. Started watching TV and he's still playing WoW. I asked him if he was going to play that all night and he said no.
So I got him an AMP from downstairs because he said he had a craving for caffeine. AND I gave him a back-rub because his back was hurting. And he's still playing WoW and it's 11:00pm (we got done fighting around 8:00 or 8:30). So I asked him again, "Are you going to play that all night?" And he said yes! What a douche!
I told him that he said no before and he said he couldn't imagine himself saying that because he promised Jack he would be online all weekend so they could go raid.
Now this was wrong on many levels: 1) He never mentioned this before, 2) I asked him if we were going to do anything after the play and he replied that he didn't know yet [this was right before I left to pick him up], 3) he freaking lied saying that he wasn't going to play it all night!
He could've mentioned that he promised his friend he was going to play with him all weekend. I would've understood and stayed home (because I don't want to watch that shit all night).
So needless-to-say, I left pretty angry.
What happened before I left: [I said I was leaving, he asked why, I said "because what am I going to do? just sit here", he said "I'm watching TV with you", I told him "No, you're playing WoW", he said he could multi-task, I said...I forgot what I said, I was really pissed by this point. I think I said something about not wanting that (along those lines). So he said he couldn't do anything about it because he promised Jack...blah blah. I said then keep you're promise to Jack, and I left. He said "ok...bye." I said "bye"]
There. *whew*
So yeah, he seems like he doesn't care that much whether I stay or go really. Not to mention he lied about it.
This all could've been avoided if he just told me this before-hand. Fuck!
Fucking dickwad!