RP Character Sex Life Meme
✖ The RP Character Sex Life Meme ✖
It's not only fun, but helpful to explore as many facets of your character's personality and life experience as you can in the world of RP! Sometimes, over the course of filling-out personal information memes, you discover things about your characters that you haven't really considered before.
That being said... have you considered your character's sexuality to its fullest? Here is a helpful meme that will hopefully allow you to explore some of those down and dirty details of your character's sexuality!
✖ BASIC WIRING ✖
01. Okay, first things first. Does your character have a determined sexuality? Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, asexual...?
02. Where does sexuality rank in your character's priorities? Does the answer to the question above in any way define your character's interactions with others in-game? Or, if your character does NOT have a sexuality that can be so easily labeled, are they troubled by this uncertainty in any way?
03. Would your character consider switching their 'usual' role in a sexual situation? If this question seems a bit vague, I'll elaborate: Would your male or sexually dominant character be open to being dominated, topped or made to submit sexually? Or, would your female or sexually submissive character have any ambition to dominate or display aggression in a sex situation? Why or why not?
04. Would your character cross dress? If they were put into a situation where the issue was forced, would they fight it tooth and nail or easily accept? Why or why not?
05. Does your character have any opinion regarding others' sexuality? Any moral, religious, or personal objections to certain lifestyles? Do they just not give a shit? And why do they feel the way that they do?
✖ DEFLOWERING ✖
06. Let's ease into talking about the act itself with a little exploration of your character's tentative beginnings. When did your character receive their first kiss? Who was the person that kissed them? Were the circumstances pleasant or unpleasant?
07. Was there anybody that your character had a crush on when they were younger? Was it a friend, a neighbor, a mentor, an enemy...?
08. Your character MUST have gone through puberty by now. Who or what did they have wet dreams about? Even if it's involuntary, almost everyone has had a wet dream before, so... what was your character's dream?
09. Has your character dated before? Did they have boyfriends or a girlfriends before the point in their timeline from which you are playing them now? How did those relationships work-out for your character, or barring past relationships: did your character avoid having a significant other for any reason?
10. How did your character lose their virginity, and to whom? Were the circumstances pleasant or unpleasant? If your character's still a virgin, have they ever gotten close to being that intimate with someone?
✖ SPIRIT FINGERS ✖
11. Now we begin with the dirty details! Has your character ever been fingered or given a handjob? Was this one of their initial sexual experiences, or did they plunge right into the deep end when they lost their virginity? Do they like to be fingered or given hand jobs, or is it not really their thing?
12. Has your character ever fingered or given a hand job to anybody else? The difference in aggressiveness and intent between giving and receiving is an interesting dynamic to explore, so let's see: was your character doing this because they wanted to, or were they asked/forced to do it?
13. If your character has used their hands on a man, would they be willing to use their hands on a woman [or vice-versa]? Is there a difference of taste, a level of squick or an utter lack of interest involved?
14. Pianists, artists and surgeons are just a few kinds of people with very skillful hands. Is your character especially dextrous? Do they do a good job of pleasuring someone with their hands? Or, is their touch as skillful and delicate as a bat from a boxing glove?
15. Does your character mind their partner 'reaching the peak' while in their hands? It's a matter of texture and cleanliness, and some people absolutely despise the squishy, messy feeling and the smell of it. Does your character revel in it?
✖ ORAL REPORT ✖
16. Getting a bit deeper now... Has your character ever received oral sex [fellatio or cunnilingus] from anyone? Was it from someone with whom they were engaged in a romantic relationship, or was it from someone else [a friend, a neighbor, a mentor, an enemy]? Was it good, or was the other person just as inexperienced at giving as your character was at receiving?
17. Has your character ever given anyone oral sex? Who did they give it to, and under what circumstances? Was it good for their partner, or was it bad [remember, this was your character's first time. There's no shame in not doing something right the first time, but your character may not think so]?
18. If your character received oral from a female, how would your character react to receiving it from a male? If they received it from a male, how would they react if a female went down on them? Similarly, if your character has given fellatio before, how would they feel about giving cunnilingus or vice-versa? Would it be morally objectionable to them, or would it be just fine? Would there be a difference in interest for them between one kind of oral and the other?
19. Is your character especially skillful with their tongue? People with oral fixations [smokers, people who constantly chew on reeds or candies, etc.] tend to be naturals in this department, it seems, but not everyone is so blessed. Did your character apply a concentrated effort to be as good as they are? At the other end of the spectrum, do they really not care for giving oral at all and avoid it at all costs?
20. Would your character spit or swallow [where situations apply] and why? Would they even allow their partner to 'play to a crescendo' while still in their mouth?
✖ GETTING DOWN ✖
21. Alright, now we're ready for these questions. Does your character have a sexual position that they prefer above others? Missionary, Reverse Cowgirl, that one position where their face is pushed into the mattress and their ass is in the air as high as it can go? Named or described, this is a detail that can reveal a lot about your character's boldness and confidence or a similar lack thereof [for instance, do they avoid positions that involve eye contact or do they seek them out?]
22. Does your character like it slow and gentle or fast and rough? Is there any deeper psychological reason for this preference, or do they just like it better one way or the other?
23. Is your character quiet about expressing themselves during the act, or are they so loud that the neighbors will call the cops? Are they relatively immobile participants that leave their partners to do most of the work or are they passionately throwing themselves into every position imaginable? Why are they that way, and is it an issue of taste or of capability for them?
24. It's pretty hard to maintain a balance here, though it is possible... but there's almost always an element of either selfishness or selflessness in sex. Is your character more focused on satisfying their own needs first, or on pleasuring their partner?
25. What does your character do pre and post-coital? Are they fans of a lot of foreplay beforehand and a lot of cuddling and one-on-one time afterwards, or are they more into getting down to business and then going to sleep?
✖ GETTING DIRTY ✖
26. And now for some of the kinkier stuff! Does your character feel particularly aroused by violence, bloodletting or the presence of deadly weapons in the foreplay or sex [guns, knives and all that they can be utilized for in the bedroom]? Is their partner [or theoretical partner in the RP setting, if they have one] a fan of this fetish, or no?
27. Does your character have any voyeuristic or exhibitionist tendencies? What I mean is, do they enjoy the thought of performing sexually in front of an audience or in a public place, or do they enjoy the thought of watching someone else engage in sex, either by secretly spying on them or coming right out into plain view for it?
28. Would your character be open to a sexual situation involving multiple partners? Is this reflective of a certain level of intimacy and/or trust between them and their prospective partners, or just a basic matter of lust that they would have some awkward coffee over the next morning?
29. Would your character be capable of or inclined to rape anyone? Rape is most often an issue of control, not only as it is exerted over another human being but as a measure of the amount of control that even an otherwise incredibly violent character can exert over themselves.
30. Would your character be tempted by SOME FORM OF SEX that is illegal by its very nature? I mean, let's see here... that would be 'taking the jailbait' or 'getting a bit too friendly with the sheep,' for example. Would they obey these urges?
✖ THE AFTERGLOW ✖
31. Okay, to ease you back into the world of light, let's have a few final questions about relationships in general. Is your character the type to remain committed and monogamous, or would they be likely or capable of cheating on their significant other?
32. Would your character be the type to happily bounce headlong into longterm dating, engagement and marriage, or would they be more likely to have commitment anxiety and 'cold feet?' Incidentally, are they more likely to propose or to be proposed to by their partner or any prospective partners in-game?
33. Does your character seem like they would be a good or a bad parent? Regardless of their actual sexual situation and whether they CAN have kids in their current or prospective relationship or not, do you think that they'd be up to the task of caring for a child? Or, do they HATE the little buggers? Why do they feel that way?
34. Does your character seem like the sort to really 'settle-down' with their partner? Or are they more likely to spend the rest of their days globetrotting and living it up like they're not a day over 20?
35. Would your character remain loyal to their partner unto death, or are they the type to leave a string of divorces in their wake?
It's not only fun, but helpful to explore as many facets of your character's personality and life experience as you can in the world of RP! Sometimes, over the course of filling-out personal information memes, you discover things about your characters that you haven't really considered before.
That being said... have you considered your character's sexuality to its fullest? Here is a helpful meme that will hopefully allow you to explore some of those down and dirty details of your character's sexuality!
✖ BASIC WIRING ✖
01. Okay, first things first. Does your character have a determined sexuality? Heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, asexual...?
02. Where does sexuality rank in your character's priorities? Does the answer to the question above in any way define your character's interactions with others in-game? Or, if your character does NOT have a sexuality that can be so easily labeled, are they troubled by this uncertainty in any way?
03. Would your character consider switching their 'usual' role in a sexual situation? If this question seems a bit vague, I'll elaborate: Would your male or sexually dominant character be open to being dominated, topped or made to submit sexually? Or, would your female or sexually submissive character have any ambition to dominate or display aggression in a sex situation? Why or why not?
04. Would your character cross dress? If they were put into a situation where the issue was forced, would they fight it tooth and nail or easily accept? Why or why not?
05. Does your character have any opinion regarding others' sexuality? Any moral, religious, or personal objections to certain lifestyles? Do they just not give a shit? And why do they feel the way that they do?
✖ DEFLOWERING ✖
06. Let's ease into talking about the act itself with a little exploration of your character's tentative beginnings. When did your character receive their first kiss? Who was the person that kissed them? Were the circumstances pleasant or unpleasant?
07. Was there anybody that your character had a crush on when they were younger? Was it a friend, a neighbor, a mentor, an enemy...?
08. Your character MUST have gone through puberty by now. Who or what did they have wet dreams about? Even if it's involuntary, almost everyone has had a wet dream before, so... what was your character's dream?
09. Has your character dated before? Did they have boyfriends or a girlfriends before the point in their timeline from which you are playing them now? How did those relationships work-out for your character, or barring past relationships: did your character avoid having a significant other for any reason?
10. How did your character lose their virginity, and to whom? Were the circumstances pleasant or unpleasant? If your character's still a virgin, have they ever gotten close to being that intimate with someone?
✖ SPIRIT FINGERS ✖
11. Now we begin with the dirty details! Has your character ever been fingered or given a handjob? Was this one of their initial sexual experiences, or did they plunge right into the deep end when they lost their virginity? Do they like to be fingered or given hand jobs, or is it not really their thing?
12. Has your character ever fingered or given a hand job to anybody else? The difference in aggressiveness and intent between giving and receiving is an interesting dynamic to explore, so let's see: was your character doing this because they wanted to, or were they asked/forced to do it?
13. If your character has used their hands on a man, would they be willing to use their hands on a woman [or vice-versa]? Is there a difference of taste, a level of squick or an utter lack of interest involved?
14. Pianists, artists and surgeons are just a few kinds of people with very skillful hands. Is your character especially dextrous? Do they do a good job of pleasuring someone with their hands? Or, is their touch as skillful and delicate as a bat from a boxing glove?
15. Does your character mind their partner 'reaching the peak' while in their hands? It's a matter of texture and cleanliness, and some people absolutely despise the squishy, messy feeling and the smell of it. Does your character revel in it?
✖ ORAL REPORT ✖
16. Getting a bit deeper now... Has your character ever received oral sex [fellatio or cunnilingus] from anyone? Was it from someone with whom they were engaged in a romantic relationship, or was it from someone else [a friend, a neighbor, a mentor, an enemy]? Was it good, or was the other person just as inexperienced at giving as your character was at receiving?
17. Has your character ever given anyone oral sex? Who did they give it to, and under what circumstances? Was it good for their partner, or was it bad [remember, this was your character's first time. There's no shame in not doing something right the first time, but your character may not think so]?
18. If your character received oral from a female, how would your character react to receiving it from a male? If they received it from a male, how would they react if a female went down on them? Similarly, if your character has given fellatio before, how would they feel about giving cunnilingus or vice-versa? Would it be morally objectionable to them, or would it be just fine? Would there be a difference in interest for them between one kind of oral and the other?
19. Is your character especially skillful with their tongue? People with oral fixations [smokers, people who constantly chew on reeds or candies, etc.] tend to be naturals in this department, it seems, but not everyone is so blessed. Did your character apply a concentrated effort to be as good as they are? At the other end of the spectrum, do they really not care for giving oral at all and avoid it at all costs?
20. Would your character spit or swallow [where situations apply] and why? Would they even allow their partner to 'play to a crescendo' while still in their mouth?
✖ GETTING DOWN ✖
21. Alright, now we're ready for these questions. Does your character have a sexual position that they prefer above others? Missionary, Reverse Cowgirl, that one position where their face is pushed into the mattress and their ass is in the air as high as it can go? Named or described, this is a detail that can reveal a lot about your character's boldness and confidence or a similar lack thereof [for instance, do they avoid positions that involve eye contact or do they seek them out?]
22. Does your character like it slow and gentle or fast and rough? Is there any deeper psychological reason for this preference, or do they just like it better one way or the other?
23. Is your character quiet about expressing themselves during the act, or are they so loud that the neighbors will call the cops? Are they relatively immobile participants that leave their partners to do most of the work or are they passionately throwing themselves into every position imaginable? Why are they that way, and is it an issue of taste or of capability for them?
24. It's pretty hard to maintain a balance here, though it is possible... but there's almost always an element of either selfishness or selflessness in sex. Is your character more focused on satisfying their own needs first, or on pleasuring their partner?
25. What does your character do pre and post-coital? Are they fans of a lot of foreplay beforehand and a lot of cuddling and one-on-one time afterwards, or are they more into getting down to business and then going to sleep?
✖ GETTING DIRTY ✖
26. And now for some of the kinkier stuff! Does your character feel particularly aroused by violence, bloodletting or the presence of deadly weapons in the foreplay or sex [guns, knives and all that they can be utilized for in the bedroom]? Is their partner [or theoretical partner in the RP setting, if they have one] a fan of this fetish, or no?
27. Does your character have any voyeuristic or exhibitionist tendencies? What I mean is, do they enjoy the thought of performing sexually in front of an audience or in a public place, or do they enjoy the thought of watching someone else engage in sex, either by secretly spying on them or coming right out into plain view for it?
28. Would your character be open to a sexual situation involving multiple partners? Is this reflective of a certain level of intimacy and/or trust between them and their prospective partners, or just a basic matter of lust that they would have some awkward coffee over the next morning?
29. Would your character be capable of or inclined to rape anyone? Rape is most often an issue of control, not only as it is exerted over another human being but as a measure of the amount of control that even an otherwise incredibly violent character can exert over themselves.
30. Would your character be tempted by SOME FORM OF SEX that is illegal by its very nature? I mean, let's see here... that would be 'taking the jailbait' or 'getting a bit too friendly with the sheep,' for example. Would they obey these urges?
✖ THE AFTERGLOW ✖
31. Okay, to ease you back into the world of light, let's have a few final questions about relationships in general. Is your character the type to remain committed and monogamous, or would they be likely or capable of cheating on their significant other?
32. Would your character be the type to happily bounce headlong into longterm dating, engagement and marriage, or would they be more likely to have commitment anxiety and 'cold feet?' Incidentally, are they more likely to propose or to be proposed to by their partner or any prospective partners in-game?
33. Does your character seem like they would be a good or a bad parent? Regardless of their actual sexual situation and whether they CAN have kids in their current or prospective relationship or not, do you think that they'd be up to the task of caring for a child? Or, do they HATE the little buggers? Why do they feel that way?
34. Does your character seem like the sort to really 'settle-down' with their partner? Or are they more likely to spend the rest of their days globetrotting and living it up like they're not a day over 20?
35. Would your character remain loyal to their partner unto death, or are they the type to leave a string of divorces in their wake?