Another rant about problems

Jun 29, 2007 08:37

Okay, at this point after talking to other friends about her I have decided I may have to cut off one of my friends. She doesn't seem to understand that every time she speaks to me it's in a condescending manner. Whenever I say something like "You know I think I'm starting to lose weight these jeans aren't as tight as they used to be." She'll say "No, those have always been loose on you." and when I argue back that the "high-waisted pants I'm wearing were never low-riders on me." She'd argue that they always were and that most of my pants were that way. Also she acts like I'm this recalcitrant child that knows nothing. I could have studied on something and she'll say she either learned from her (grandfather/father/mother) that what I said was wrong, that she looked it up (providing no proof) and found I was wrong, had studied it, or if it deals with anything religious she learned it in CCD class and yet again I am wrong. She uses the excuse that she is a border-line genius as if that makes her ultimately smarter than me. I won't argue that in some cases she is, but not everything. When I have told her this she will go "If I'm such a horrible person why are you still talking to me?" in a very whiny tone. My response was "I'm hoping it will go away." but it hasn't. If anyone has any suggestions I'd like to know. My other friends say they've noticed these things too. If I'm with any of them and she's with there will be a fight. If I'm with them and ANYONE ELSE we all get along fine. I'm posting a poll on what I should do. I'm at my wits end. Thanks for listening.

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