Complaint about room mates
Well once in a while I do complain. I try to just not ever anymore because I spent too much time doing it before (see past entries). There are much more things to say grateful things about but right now I'm gonna get this off my chest. My girlfriend's room mate is a pretty nice person. She just leads a terribly unhealthy life... We have hinted here and there to try to nudge her in a positive direction but she is stuck. And you can not help people when they aren't open to it. She is closed off and in her own world of negativity. She eats cookie dough raw and drinks soda, doesn't really brush her teeth, doesn't eat real food EVER (we have offered dinner to her a few times, now I've just stopped doing it). But when it comes to not cleaning up AT ALL after herself to the point where Karen and I have to do it for her constantly...well this is where the complaint comes from. She cleans ZERO dishes that she makes, 2 out of the 3 cats here are HER CATS and she NEVER scoops the litter or gives them water, only adds food and too much food at that. She never cleans out her stuff from the fridge when it goes bad. And I hate to say this part but she often leaves feces and blood in and on the toilet which is almost unbearable. Then a good example of what pushed me to the point of writing about all this is today when I cleaned the litter box as always and changed the pee pads which were soaked to the max in urine and noticed we are out of pads plus there was so little litter left in one of the boxes that the cats had begun peeing outside of the box which led to them peeing all over the toilet paper rolls so 4 were wasted. I let her know nicely about them needing more litter and pee pads and she proceeded to complain to me that we change them too often and that we need to buy the litter and food and such. Really!!?? I do believe in being fair and room mates splitting things but does she not understand how much extra we have to do because she doesn't do ANYTHING?! I guess not, I guess we have to have a sit down and tell her, which will do no good at this point since we are all going our separate ways in a month or so. THANK GODDESS! It just makes me frustrated and sad so I had to write it down. Now on to better things!