Getting over someone is hard to do.

Aug 11, 2005 10:16

You can't sit there and catch your own tail its not a good idea. and what i mean by that is you are just twisting it and trying to move on but the pain inside of you is just working you over and over again, so you can't free your mind, even when you laugh or at least try, something seems to be putting a break to your joy and its what you know. Even when it's sunny and cool out there.. you are glued to your msn waiting for an online beep, he/she is going to pop up and chat with me so i'm not going anywhere, and even when you leave your going to hurry back hoping for an email or to see him/her online...Well it's a classic..When you really want to move on..don't rush to talk to them soon as they pop online.. if they really want to talk to you they will.Than go to the gym, go out shopping, dancing, a movie, most important thing get out there and meet new people because it could put new spices in your life. You may feel like oh my god... i have this gut feeling that we can be together one day.. well that's normal.. until.. you move on by example meeting someone new someone who makes you feel better. Than that makes you laugh and after that you see how you feel... you may feel oh.. i will have feelings for him/her again... but you never really now until you try.. and even if so.. what the heck...Evaluate the situation.. what can you lose Vs what you don't have. You never really know.Life is unpredicatble anything can happen, anytime. any place. anywhere. but meanwhile you have to move forward in life.. You have to move your ass and start doing something. It's the only way to remove the heavy weight from your shoulder.It's truley hard to do, and am very aware with this because this is exactly what i am going through right now. In my heart i believe that one day me and the guy i like and love with all my heart, will be together, right now things are so complicated, but i need to release some of pain and let go. It will come to you if it's meant to be. In saying this i'm not saying give up.Just try to accept the things that can't be right now.
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