Jun 08, 2005 04:20
instead of replying to each comment, i thought i'd just answer them all this way(a lot easier!).
i talked to my hubby and told him i don't want to drive and he is not budging from his opinion...
i also thought i should clear up that there is no way i won't be able to get out of NOT going to iowa to see his parents. chris has always gone on every leave to see his parents, and this one he definitely would not miss. yeah, isn't that sad? not once have we gone on a vacation by ourselves...always to see mom and dad...grr.
i guess that is another big factor in this whole disagreement. i don't really think we should spend time over there...but so far our marriage has been me, him, and his parents. they absolutely hate me, and try so hard to break us up all the time too.
don't get me wrong, my husband is absolutely wonderful in every other way, the only problem he has is letting go of his dad.
but i guess this problem with us traveling on his leave will need to get worked out over the course of the next month or two.
thanks to everyone for their support and advice. you guys are truly great, i'm so glad i joined this community.