Sep 19, 2006 15:15
"I believe that my generation has confused the term "love." Love shouldn't automatically be falling for someone just because you are attracted to them or because you are going out. It's ok to just get to know someone and if you don't like their personality or if maybe you two aren't compatible then you become friends, if that is in the cards for you two. What love means to me is this deep emotional feeling towards someone where you believe you could spend the rest of your life with them and you would do anything for them. You think about their personal qualities constantly that touch you on a level that can't be described as opposed to "Wow, that girl is really hot. Look at those tits and ass. I love her."
Personality > Sexual attractiveness. Although I do believe sexual attractiveness is really important, I just think personality comes first. Take it slow, get to know him, and then make a decision on whether or not the relationship is worth moving on to the next
level(s)."