advice from my homies PLEASE

[you_canb_happy]

what would you all consider moving to fast?
how slow should i take things? 
(kurtis i think you might be good at answering the next one and i really would love your opinion you do know me the best)
how do i get close to someone with out being a complete wacko and "falling" for them to soon?

Comments

[mark_the_indo]

Just give him space while taking some time out for yourself. Oh and take care of the boys when your surveying the territory.

[you_canb_happy]

awsome advice, thank you mark larson

[79even]

I'd give you advice but we both know I'm not the best at "taking things slow". : P

[you_canb_happy]

lol oh raychel, you know we BOTH have issues in that department, in love with being in love we are we are

[g_g_allin]

I believe that my generation has confused the term "love." Love shouldn't automatically be falling for someone just because you are attracted to them or because you are going out. It's ok to just get to know someone and if you don't like their personality or if maybe you two aren't compatible then you become friends, if that is in the cards for you two. What love means to me is this deep emotional feeling towards someone where you believe you could spend the rest of your life with them and you would do anything for them. You think about their personal qualities constantly that touch you on a level that can't be described as opposed to "Wow, that girl is really hot. Look at those tits and ass. I love her."
Personality > Sexual attractiveness. Although I do believe sexual attractiveness is really important, I just think personality comes first. Take it slow, get to know him, and then make a decision on whether or not the relationship is worth moving on to the next
level(s).

[you_canb_happy]

maybe the best advice...ever!
we should hang out again soon